Photo by Andreas Filla, taken at the Berlin Pride Parade 1994. CC-BY-SA
Hi my trans siblings!
I’m late writing this mega this week, I had hoped to do more research but maybe I can add stuff and re-write this as the week goes on.
This time I’d like to share some information I stumbled across about 20th century trans icon Charlotte von Mahlsdorf. She was born in the Weimar Republic in 1928 and survived Nazi Germany to make it as the most prominent trans woman that I’m aware of in the DDR (GDR or East Germany). There she ran the Gründerzeit museum, dedicated to the founding period of the German Empire and the period of its industrialization. The museum ended up becoming a popular hotspot for the gay and I presume trans and queer scene in the DDR.
She was politically active, having been an unofficial informant of the Stasi which ideally I’d love more information on. Was she helping them identify Nazis? Surely being a trans woman would’ve lured a lot of reactionaries out from behind their masks in her presence. In fact, after the DDR was taken over by the BRD (West Germany) in 1990, it only took about one year before one of the parties she threw at the museum was the target of a neo-Nazi attack, at which point she announced she was considering leaving Germany. She eventually moved to Sweden in 1997, where I believe she lived the rest of her life.
She died of natural causes at the age of 74 during a visit to Berlin in 2002.
This has been more or less a summary of the Wikipedia article on her where I did check some sources, but I really want to learn more about her. I only learned of her in the past couple days, and there is a film about her from 1992 called I Am My Own Woman, by Rosa von Praunheim.
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Never trust a cissie, not even on hexbear. They will betray you.
People on here posting transphobia hits different and gives me a whole other level of hopelessness
Edit: oh, and it’s a multi comm mod!
Yeah, i feel that. I try to work with what i have, to focus on the people closest to me and put my energy into keeping us safe and happy, but it’s painful how this kinda limits my solidarity.
It’s painful for me because of how we are treated. People genuinely don’t deserve my solidarity I hope they choke and die
I’m so sick of 90%+ of people being dogshit bigots. DEATH TO TRANSPHOBES
There’s a couple cis people in my life who are chill. I love them very much, they will - and do - support me. Right up until its too inconvenient or visible.
The fact that he felt this was a good place to repost that transphobic garbage is just wild. Cis “allies” fumble the most simple tests of solidarity.
Did something happen? :(
The post has been removed by now, but somebody thought it was ok to repost a transmisogynist standup routine because the targeted trans woman in the audience worked for the MIC.
Edit: It’s this thread in case anybody is wondering https://hexbear.net/post/8360183
having some cis dude on stage in front of a room full of people asking you for your pronouns is like a scenario from my nightmares
Ooh ew, ppl rly will take any excuse to be transmisogynists
6 days later and I must still scroll back to this comment after all these fucking contra posts smdh
The vegans here got my ass, I’m stopping eating meat today and eventually moving to veganism.
Happy to hear it!
Your comments about veganism specifically played a role in me deciding this
That means a lot, I’m really glad something I said made a difference.
Congratulations!
We have a new sister in tofu!
(Assuming you’re gonna eat tofu)
Yeah my friend is gonna show me how to cook it! I never actually tried tofu before 2025 but it’s really yummy!
Good luck on cooking it. It’s not very hard. Very forgiving when it comes to temps.
I’m in the vegetarian stage and have been for a while. It’s very hard to stop consuming everything that comes from animals, and expensive to substitute (I blame capitalism). If it was more accessible I’d be vegan already
Yeah I’m gonna be in the vegetarian stage for a while probably the next few years as I buff my cooking skills up
yay it rocks
Dying of natural causes at 74 despite living through nazi germany 1 (1871-1945) and nazi germany 2 (1990-now)! That’s a pretty happy ending.
(Well ok dying at all isn’t a happy ending but immortality does not exist unfortunately)
The wikipedia article on her has some disgusting framing:
Her life could be described as that of an outsider who survived, no matter the ruling ideology, during the Nazi period, Communist-controlled East Germany
Yeah cause surviving the fucking holocaust and surviving a government that let her run a whole ass museum and gave her a mansion rent-free are the same thing.
Libs really are shameless dipshits
Yeah NATOpedia really not beating the NATOpedia allegations. I knew it as soon as I saw this sentence in the intro with not a single citation, “The museum became a popular meeting-point for East Berlin’s gay community, to the disapproval of the East German regime (Stasi).”
The “regime” disapproved so hard they did basically nothing about it. And even when they were interested in bringing it under government control, they decided otherwise due to resistance from her and community apparently. Who do they think they are listening to their citizens and respecting their wishes? /s
Actually, trying to bring this museum under state control was just as bad or worse than being imprisoned for being gay. The state “disapproving” is just as bad legal repression. Anything to make East Germany just as evil as the West.
I walked past a window today after putting on my favorite outfit and doing my hair up nice and I almost cried. It’s been 3 years of hrt almost, and 5 years of social transition. I made it y’all. I didn’t just see a woman in the reflection this time, I saw me. I had to keep glancing back, every time I thought I’d be gone, replaced by the unfamiliar image that I usually see, but no. Every time I was there, looking as familiar as when I imagine myself.
It’s done, it feels like the hard part is over. At least for me, in this one way, I won. I think it was 10 years ago that I convinced myself I couldn’t transition because it was too late or I’d just never be happy with where I’d end up, I couldn’t even imagine a path from where I was to anything I’d want to be. Eventually I realized that I’d have to try, but the doubt always remained. But I beat it, I won against it. Not just in battle day but the whole war. I’m here to stay for as long as I’ve got left, and I’m gonna enjoy the hell out of it.
So happy for you! That was lovely to read.Thank you! I’m gonna ride this high as long as I can.
That’s incredible. I love this for you so much!
That’s so amazing!!
Fun fact: Charlotte von Mahlsdorf had a brief cameo as a bartender at a queer club in DEFA’s 1989 movie Coming Out, the GDR’s film aimed at destigmitizing gay relationships following the sudden reversal of queer policy in the mid 1980s. In that sense, it is a spiritual successor to Magnus Hirschfeld’s 1919 silent film Anders als die Andern (Different from the Others).
Today marks three years nicotine-free.
Never thought I’d get this far.
Proud of youuuu!!! I hope I get there, I recently quit (again
). Its hard and I’m glad you surprised yourself 
Today my youngest gave me a sticker and said, “there, now you’re pretty like a princess” and I almost cried. No one’s ever said anything like that to me before.
Came out to my brother, went very very well! Apparently his partner had noticed I’ve been referring to myself super gender neutrally so they’ve suspected something is up.
My sister had said she expected him to be super accepting to be contrarian to my mom but he was just cool about it period. Funny that my sister would suspect such a mercenary justification for him being accepting when she herself didn’t handle it the best at first.
T4T must be the greatest form of love, there is no doubt in my mind
I finally got my hormones this week, I am so happy.
congratulations comrade!!! <3
Hell yeah!
Old people question but how do i use this emote? And hell yeah! The mood boost is peak.
When you’re typing the comment, click the little smiley face above the comment box, type trans in this case to bring all the trans emotes, and then wait 2 eternities for them to load (:
-be me
-guy at work who is quiet, seems a little odd but harmless
-surprisingly chill about my transition the whole time, no comments, corrects staff who misgender me
-no egg vibes at all
-much later on Facebook see you might be friends with a woman
-shes very beautiful
-shes very clocky
-picture is of her at wedding to the guy at my work
-mutual friend is a trans friend of mine (I’m not friends with him)
-huh dudes rock
Her letter came in and I cried, trans mega today was rough but when I got news her letter awaited me it made today an even better day
Soooo cute to have a couple pining over each other in the mega again
Random thought leapt into my mind
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Reflexively going to open the door for a girl cause that’s how I was raised but she grabs my wrist, gives me a chiding look, and holds it open for me instead
