Get off of the grass!
And into my car!🎵

Where the fuck are all the cute trans guys at???

Squawk LGBT

Probably would’ve been harder to go more south, but so long as youre passing customs in Canada the worst they could do is presumably tell you you cant come so you just go home. A friend of mine wants to go to Texas in August, she’s also trans AND wants to compete in a sport during it - I dunno if I would’ve done that

They want me to do ICB in Trauma. Kind of spooky, usually it’s something you do after 6 months to a year in the job. But they said I was a fast learner and had experience from pediatrics, which I guess I do. Guess I got to get better at reading ECGs, best I know is SR, ST, asystole, bigeminy 😬

There have been people turned away for memes on their phones, there are currently Canadian citizens held in ICE detention facilities on seemingly spurious grounds or for things that wouldve normally led to regular deportation, and our government advice has been dont fuck around and just take a burner phone when crossing the border, plus America has some shitty attitudes towards trans people especially when held in detention. Saying that, plenty of people have gone without issue and you dont hear about all the cases like mine where everything was fine

Technically, as a member of communist party, I am also ineligible to immigrate~ Cant remember if that’s only for permanent residency/citizenship or if it also applies to temporary residents (like me when I went just to visit and tour)

Smokes and booze so cheap in the US
But your money smells SO BAD

Went to Seattle, watched MCR, it was kick ass! I was so happy with how much trans pride there is there!

Had to use a burner phone, going to the states feels pretty fraught 😬. The customs guy was fine, guess it helped that I was going to a concert and leaving shortly after.

Whoa clearly I had misread what you’d said, cause I thought this was a situation where you were like the trans sister helping someone out who’d just come out like just before moving in with you

I appreciate you feel used but I really don’t get the hostility? I was honestly confused, I thought you felt used because you’d helped someone and then they asked you out - Im not aware of anything beyond what you posted, so if she was way creepier than what you wrote or did way more boundary pushing, I wasn’t there physically. Clearly this was way more intense than what I had read.

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Being LGBT is so confusing because we dont have any of the nice relationship stuff handed down to us anymore, its all in the air. One would think being polite and some common sense might preclude one from asking out a roommate - but roommates to lovers is a thing that sometimes happens. Its all in the air, especially a freshly cracked trans girl just starting out. I bet there’s some crossed wires with specifically your roommate between platonic love and romantic love and the love we show the trans sisterhood in general, and hopefully she’ll get a handle on it as hormones settle (dont discount the horniness of second puberty and the power of a crush towards someone who is nice and frankly life saving to them, I get it as a nurse too)

We so often had to repress and feel ashamed about gender feelings along with however much dealing with romantic feelings as an egg was. Its easy when its been repressed for a couple decades at least for it to come out way strong.

You didnt do anything wrong, she shot her shot and hopefully didnt let the hinting phase get too awkward. Embarassing lesson, but ideally the both of you can come back from this and settle in to just roommates. If not, you or her might have to figure out alternate housing arrangements (especially if she cant let it go). Im surprised you feel used - I think you should interrogate that and think about it, you’ve extended help with gender stuff like HRT and fashion, youre roommates, and you seem to have done that on your own. Why feel used when she asked you out? Im sure she would’ve needed the help if she was straight and not interested in you. I can appreciate you feeling used when she touched you, hopefully you shut that down then or will going forwards with others - and hopefully she learns to start asking for consent, although I know it feels weird and unusual

Everyone knows there’s sexy stereotype of ladies wearing glasses, but its definitely cross gender cause some of these dudes look fine with glasses

OMG you’re so hot. I love it when you are that confidant, I love the way you love yourself, I love how optimistic you are even when things seem bleak

Exes for a reason~

Depends where you live. Also gotta get used to dating your friends exes and your friends dating your exes, just queer things. My trans friend circle is composed entirely of people who’ve dated people, except for me and ONE other person lol

Its the subs and the bottoms with the hard core fantasies, swear to god

Trans man Tony Stark would be an interesting take. He’d probably invent some super nano gender thing

You didnt know!!

He’s got an infamously bad English accent in it. Its actually a bit charming in its own gangly way

Been spending most our lives
Living in a gooner paradise
Been stroked now once or twice
Living in a gooner paradise