A relationship isn’t something you can achieve through desperation. The harder you try the more frustrating it will be and then when the right person finally comes along, someone you genuinely could click with, your insecurities and weaknesses will be cranked up to the max and will be on full display. You’ll end up sabotaging yourself.

Put the romance on the back burner. Delete all your dating apps, they’re designed to bring you despair. Join some clubs, or find a job that allows you to maximize contact with other people. Make some friends. And eventually you’ll find someone who makes you happy.

We don’t have to be enemies, but if you insist…

Don’t blame me if you find your back against a

I have been in relationships and they were emotionally unfulfilling and caused my emotions to spiral out of control. And that’s because I expected too much of them. I expected them to fill the void inside of me, but that is an unfair burden to place upon others.

But I’ve gotten myself to a point where I’m content being single, and a romantic relationship would just be an added bonus. And while I don’t have a romantic partner, I have a best friend who’s more important to me than any romantic partner I’ve ever been with.

I want a classless society where we’re all equal and the Jews aren’t invited.

Saying a Muslim man winning an election in New York is like 9/11

That sounds worse than regular nightmares. I’ll stick with regular cheese and moral ambiguity, please

life with love is everything and life without love is nothing

I think you’re putting too much emphasize on romance. Years ago before I transitioned, I sought a lot of validation through romantic relationships. All it did was make me more desperate and anxious.

After I started my transition, I put romantic pursuit on the back-burner and focused solely on myself. I focused on the goals and desires I could obtain on my own, and that’s given me a stable foundation in my life.

Without that foundation, I would still be continuing to seek emotionally co-dependent relationships, and that’s where you are right now.

Even if you’re not trans, you should step back and focus on your identity for the time being.

Who are you? Who do you want to be? Do those two people align and if not, what can you do to make it so? What goals and aspirations do you have?

Once you figure out the answers to these questions, then you can start to figure out what kind of people you want to surround yourself with and be able to ask yourself a different set of questions:

What kind of people do you want in your life? How does having them around improve your life? How does them having you around improve their life, and how would being in each other’s lives improve things for the both of you?

I know

They’ll get around to shoving AI into dubs when they have the opportunity

¿But at what cost?

you see, when the people are happy and their needs are met, they produce more high quality stuff. I would like more high quality stuff…

Lmao, someone shares historical facts and explains the material conditions of the world during the rise of the Soviet Union and you just lash out with no factual information, and decide to just complain about “walls of text” when they’re explaining things to you.

You are not looking for a discussion. You are not trying to improve and sharpen your understanding of the world or your rhetorical skills. You’re just throwing a tantrum when people try to explain ideas to you that don’t conform to your worldview.

And that’s exactly what makes you a reactionary. That’s the main difference between our two instances: We actually care about discussing things and educating people while you act like children refusing to eat the veggies on your plate. I’d say the moniker “anarkiddie” is accurate, but I don’t acknowledge people like you as anarchists.

You can try reaching out to the mods, I believe they are able to do that

I once shot a gorilla after a child fell into it’s enclosure

I’m so fucking glad you found this.

I wish I was in a better place financially so I’d be able to help you out more but unfortunately that’s not the case.

Gotta say it’s incredibly fucked that you have to pay a fine for just wanting a roof over your head.

Trying to fuck long legged socialists

I got the joke from somewhere. It was either a satire site or a right wing channel. It’s hard to tell the difference