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XiaCobolt [she/her]

@ XiaCobolt @hexbear.net

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    Ah yes, all the lemmy users who want to checks notes Remove Heterosexuality

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  • Yeah I said I was a prison abolitionist in a lib trans Reddit space and someone said "hey people who SA and attack trans women go to prison!"

    And I was like firstly they don't. Secondly I'm not saying we just let that happen, we stop it happening the first place by fixing material conditions, then if it still happens we've got options that range from Miracle at Fushun to Barbara pit.

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  • The thing is heterosexuality has a few meanings, one being the actual meaning "hey I'm attracted to the opposite sex" and another the actual reality of "sex is a hierarchy with men at the top, everyone must be forced by violence if necessary to be heterosexual and cis to keep this system of colonisation and exploitation of women in place!"

    So yeah I want to abolish the latter.

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  • I had this problem recently so I bought pink underwear made for gay boys

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  • Had a dream I was half kangaroo half man like a faun or mermaid where the split is top/bottom.

    I had four really cool lesbian girlfriends in a polycule who weren't sure why they were dating a random kangaroo man.

    Then I came out as a trans kangaroo woman and I wanted to have surgery to get a pouch...

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  • Yeah it's complicated

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  • Some cis women treat trans women like we're a gay bestie who is also a woman. It's why that word from us has more power.

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  • Cis women love it when you describe what they do as c*nty.

    I went out to a feminist history thing tonight, I saw my friend arriving and as she stepped out of her ride she unclipped her hair and flicked it to give it volume, it was the c*ntiest thing I saw all week. I told her and it seemed to make her night.

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  • I think one of the worst was Dr Strange doing an adequate surgical scrub then immediately de-sterilizing by putting his mask on.

  • BC to adopt permanent daylight savings time

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  • But you have to pay the time master his time toll!

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  • I'm not a bitch at all I'm a complete marshmallow...

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  • I'm not saying "spoons" it's too twee. I'm nearly forty and a real bitch. I'm using passive aggressive therapy speech like "I'm triaging emotional labour requests right now"

  • heartbreaking, the worst person you know ....

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  • "Welcome to the resistance"

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    Green Lake and Round Lake - Trans Megathread from February 23rd, 2025 to March 1st, 2026

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  • My current character is an enormously tall, blonde and clocky Nord woman who is never going to marry or become a lord, only a mercenary and trader with workshops funding her troop's wages in the down time between wars.

    Her clan is the Völur (which is the plural Norse word for Sorceress). She has scary face paint and her sigil is a hand with the evil eye in the palm. Her ship is Sturgian Lodya (like a black longship with a ram) called Witch and the figurehead is a Siren (which we just captured). She fights with a sword and field, and a 2 handed axe. Her armor and gear is intentionally light for gliding across a deck and swimming to enemy ships.

    She has 4 female companions all with grievances against the Patriarchy or mystical backgrounds. Her second in command is a Nordvyg woman who was made to marry a Vanna (Sami equivalent) man and learnt their ways, then her brothers tried to make her poison his clan in an ethnic cleansing, so she booked it. The medic is Sturgian wisewoman, whose mother and fiancé were butchered before her wedding in a raid. Her steward is an Aserai woman whose brothers disowned her when she lost their money when a good investment was destroyed by an accidental fire. Finally my scout is a Battanian woman who was cursed to never have a happy marriage and had three husbands die in quick succession.

    I kind of imagine them as big Coven and polycule. Their crew is a motley mix of Nords, Imperial/Sturgian Sailors, Sea Raiders, Corsairs and random convoy guards we've rescued.

    I'm having a lot of fun.

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  • I've learnt that when talking about Fallout 4, it's red flag someone's a chud if they call the character from that game Nate, instead of Sole Survivor. Something about the two hit punch of ignoring the female option and having no imagination to give them a different name.

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  • I went to a transfem event recently and it was packed. What was really moving was there was the regulars, plus a whole bunch of new girls who'd just dropped (eggs recently broken and out of the closet), but also a bunch of long term trans girls including stealth ones who'd drifted out of the community, who were coming back in because of everything going on.

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    Libs warming up to Trumps foreign policy (cw: reddit)

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  • Yeah Assad despite dropping the ball by all accounts was still welcomed into exile. That's Russia's policy, if you're an ally even if we disagree a lot, in exile we've got you. Same for Yanukovich and a few others.

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  • [CW: LGBTphobia] What are some of the wildest takes about LGBT you've heard from cishets?

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  • It's older than singular "you"!

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  • Oh nevermind sorry