Alisu [she/her, they/them]
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12·3 days agoI had this anxiety about not looking good in women’s clothes. But then I tried on a dress and everything felt right. You should try out various different clothes too because some will look better on your body type and some will look worse. Bodies are as varied as people and fashion can’t keep up
That sounds like a super cool idea. I still haven’t found any queer orgs around, but I’ll try to look for it.
I hate being poor. Getting a new wardrobe is expensive… I should try thrifting
I have seen things I wish didn’t exist by searching for tucking panties in my language
Just regular panties with tucking would be fine for me.
Wow I like the options there, they’re beautiful. Unfortunately, I suffer from living in the global south and buying one of these would be really difficult
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It’s the only thing I can find on the internet, must be a cultural thing I guess. If I search in english I more regular ones, but then I have to pay a lot more an import fees and stuff. I’ll try looking for tucking tape, but maybe I won’t have access to it easily.
I’ll Look for a wider gusset area if there’s any difference.
The boxer style ones were fine for me, little bit of a bulge, but if you’re seeing it, you’re in for it
That seems okay. I think you can get away with 5mg today and 4 when you get back. Assuming you’re back by next week’s Saturday or sunday it seems enough.
How long is the trip, if you don’t mind me asking.
6mg is not that much. 7mg every 10 days is common for enanthate. If it’s just once you can even go with 10mg for 2 weeks. It’s very swingy and goes really high, but it’s not too bad. Enanthate absorbs more slowly so it should be fine.
The problem with this stuff is that I can’t just go trying on a bunch, I guess I’ll figure it out eventually. I got a swimsuit as a gift from a friend and I loved it, it makes me feel really hot. It mostly keeps things safe inside, but I gotta keep adjusting it once in a while. Funny thing, though, I had more trouble with my boobs than anything else.
Well, I’ll just keep with the boxers for now, get some other stuff I need first, bras, shorts and casual clothes, I’ve been dying to throw some of my old clothes away, specially the shorts
Underwear shopping + dysphoria
Buying panties feels pretty dysphoric to me. I wanted to get one of those tucking ones, but that feels so weird to me, it feels like they will look kind of ridiculous, and they’re all so boring too, there are almost no choices. Plus there’s the fact that it feels super fetishizing in a way? Like a lot of them are thongs, or otherwise absurdly revealing, not in a sexy lingerie kind of way, but in a “LOOK AT MY ASS I’M ONLY WEARING A LITTLE PIECE OF STRING” kinda way .
I got some regular boxer style panties, they’re comfy and look fine, there is a lot of extra fabric, so everything fits in and nothing escapes, I love it for day to day, does not make me feel dysphoric when using them as opposed to men’s underwear, those bother me a lot and I’ve stopped wearing them.
The main thing is, I like cute lingerie and I want some, but also it feels super weird shopping for something that doesn’t take into account what parts I have, I just see all those cute panties and want to wear them, but then I get a little depressed because it feels like it just will not work for me…
I tried tucking with tape before, but it feels really weird and I don’t like it, maybe I got the wrong kind of tape for it, idk, I’ll have to try another way.
How can a girl find some sexy underwear, with lace and stuff, that does not feel like she’s the object of a fetish and is made for her body?
I want cute lingerie, but for day to day use it seems ok. I was going to buy some but they were super expensive at the store I was at, and I didn’t have a chance to look it up
Anyone have tips on buying a bra? How do I measure this stuff?
Who knows maybe a witch from the woods will adopt you
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Unfortunately. I did like her a lot, but I don’t want to settle down with one person just yet. I wanted a fwb or something more recurring idk. I just wanted another hook up like this week or something
relationship (kinda, but not really, not yet) drama, sex mention
Ok, basically I met this girl on a dating app. We met, had great sex, she was lovely and very understanding. We’ve been talking everyday for 2 and a half weeks.
Yesterday I learned that she broke up with her girlfriend a little over a month ago, she answered me in DAYS.
I think I fucked up. This girl is clearly not ready for anything yet. She absolutely loved being with me two weeks ago, but now she’s a little bit cold and distant. She’s been saying that it’s because of the break up and she wants to be alone. She’s still cute snd treats me well if I start on a topic. But she doesn’t want to spend time together for now (I obviously respect that).
On the other hand, I got horny and I am convinced I’m hot. I went back to the dating apps but it’s so much work to talk to people, and most of them are not really that interesting to me. Well, none of my matches are anyway. Now I’m horny and back on not getting any sex. I was alright before but this girl made me feel so horny omg
Why the fuck is everyone being racist around me all of a sudden? Even my sister’s trans bf wtf?