it’s hot. also i’m growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i’m excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?
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As a reminder, please do not discuss current struggle sessions in the mega. We want this to be a little oasis for all of us and the best way to do that is not to feed into existing conflict on the site.
Also, be sure to properly give content warnings and put sensitive subjects behind proper spoiler tags. It’s for the mental health of not just your comrades, but yourself as well.
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hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i’ll add you to the list!
the list as it stands:
Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13) sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20) peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27) BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3) oscardejarjayes* (8/4 - 8/10) Seryph (8/11 - 8/17) Shaleesh (8/18 - 8/24) GayTuckerCarlson* (8/25 - 8/31) Eco* (9/1 - 9/7) nemmybun (9/8 - 9/14) * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters
Fuck, my turn is coming up. Gotta think of something cool and awesome
you have to be really high effort like me please
Can I have 9/8 - 9/14? I wanna make a mega that no one will ever forget
absolutely, have fun
Ah! There it is! I would like to make the mega for the week of 8/18-8/24
ok! i got you on
Thank you!
Are there any restrictions on what topic I can write about? I was thinking about writing an article on obscure weapon sighting systems.
you’re free to write about whatever, it’s basically just a way for us to spotlight things we care about and share them with the community
Sing me up
buzz off before i throw you into a toilet
can i please do one? i’ve never done one before :)
fine… you can do next week’s
Gender is fake but also im a woman but also im not a woman i just do woman but also theres no such thing as woman but also but also but also
Decided to draw Kris Deltarune instead of doomscrolling tonight. I do not really understand shading still
trying to come up with funnier ways to describe my own gender, and i think the best I’ve managed thus far is:
Bigender, but I’m only male ironically
i can’t really “procrastinate” translating a manhua, since it’s my own prerogative, but my brain sure makes me feel like i am.
translated an old special/side story chapter that somehow wasn’t translated by the previous group instead of translating the one i’m “supposed to”. it also turned out to be longer than the main story chapters so yay
Pro tip if your car ever starts smoking do your best to not let it, it’s a bad habit to start and even harder to quit.
My trans friend is making awesome progress! I helped her get a GP appointment (intake forms were tricky and I recommended the local Very Woke clinic) so that she can get a proper referral to gender affirming care (she has that appointment already, but I want to make sure her insurance covers it). And her boss is being incredibly chill about her coming out. He is gay so he knows what kind of support she needs. Plus, she came out to other people before him just to make sure she would have support.
Before this, I was the only person in her life using her proper pronouns and name. But she is realizing how little most people think about or care if someone is trans in our city. It seems that her parents will not take her transition seriously until she starts to look different. They misgender her all the time.
Despite my personal problems with my parents, I am grateful that they are very pro LGBT libs and are using her pronouns when she comes over.
You get a discord notification ping, it’s a message from your friend EstraDoll at 2:38 A.M. He types it out frantically in a cold sweat. It’s far too coherent for her to be drunk at this hour, plus you know she quit drinking a while back and is unlikely to relapse
“hey i need you to be 100% real and brutally honest with me, does this outfit make me look clocky?”
sent with a spoilered selfie. you brace yourself and hesitate even hitting the “show” button as you’re slightly worried that he’s sending you nudes at 3 in the fucking morning (again). against your better judgement, you unblur the photo and see him showing off her new “”“outfit”“” standing in her filthy bedroom. clothes litter every corner of the floor as per usual but you notice her eye catching “”“”“outfit”“”“”, which is just a big sandwich board that says “I AM TRANSGENDER” in 500 point font. you reread the attached message. you’ve known him long enough to know that tone is 100% sincere from her. from this angle, you can’t even tell if she’s wearing anything underneath
dogs are aware of how cursed the fourth of july is as a holiday
severance
I still think about the Gemma reveal at the end of S1E7 of Severance and think it might very well be my favorite scene of TV of all time. Granted, I haven’t watched a lot of shows, so the statement might not be as strong as if someone who watches more shows than me said it, but I’m pretty sure it’s true
i think im about done cooking and ready to blow up at the next person who is anti-diy irl (or even a “”“fence-sitter”“”).
Can one be too skinny for injections?
cw mental health
love to get a psychic nuke dropped on me by infinite content systems on a site that i was unfamiliar with. day ruined
dysphoria
Its been bad lately. I just want to be able to look at myself naked in the mirror and be kinda ok with myself. It feels like progress is going backwards, my body feels less feminine than a year ago, after a couple laser sessions my face somehow has more hair and i cant afford more laser (they charge a lot, i did the math and its $400-600 an hour). But specifically, my shoulders are just wrecking me right now…
How do yall deal with shoulder dysphoria? I realllly dislike my shoulders, and everything makes them look larger. For reference im 195cm and somewhat thin (my belly begs to differ tho), with somewhat wide shoulders (my armpits line up with my hips). I used to try and find things to wear that would work for my body, but i have no money and tbh i dont think this is something clothing can fix… I just want to be able to look at myself in the mirror and be ok with myself…
