it’s hot. also i’m growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i’m excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?
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hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i’ll add you to the list!
the list as it stands:
Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13) sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20) peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27) BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3) oscardejarjayes* (8/4 - 8/10) Seryph (8/11 - 8/17) Shaleesh (8/18 - 8/24) GayTuckerCarlson* (8/25 - 8/31) Eco* (9/1 - 9/7) nemmybun (9/8 - 9/14) * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters
Can I have 9/8 - 9/14? I wanna make a mega that no one will ever forget
absolutely, have fun
can i please do one? i’ve never done one before :)
fine… you can do next week’s
Fuck, my turn is coming up. Gotta think of something cool and awesome
you have to be really high effort like me please
Sing me up
buzz off before i throw you into a toilet
Ah! There it is! I would like to make the mega for the week of 8/18-8/24
ok! i got you on
Thank you!
Are there any restrictions on what topic I can write about? I was thinking about writing an article on obscure weapon sighting systems.
you’re free to write about whatever, it’s basically just a way for us to spotlight things we care about and share them with the community
i think im about done cooking and ready to blow up at the next person who is anti-diy irl (or even a “”“fence-sitter”“”).
Decided to draw Kris Deltarune instead of doomscrolling tonight. I do not really understand shading still
cw mental health
love to get a psychic nuke dropped on me by infinite content systems on a site that i was unfamiliar with. day ruined
trying to come up with funnier ways to describe my own gender, and i think the best I’ve managed thus far is:
Bigender, but I’m only male ironically
dysphoria
Its been bad lately. I just want to be able to look at myself naked in the mirror and be kinda ok with myself. It feels like progress is going backwards, my body feels less feminine than a year ago, after a couple laser sessions my face somehow has more hair and i cant afford more laser (they charge a lot, i did the math and its $400-600 an hour). But specifically, my shoulders are just wrecking me right now…
How do yall deal with shoulder dysphoria? I realllly dislike my shoulders, and everything makes them look larger. For reference im 195cm and somewhat thin (my belly begs to differ tho), with somewhat wide shoulders (my armpits line up with my hips). I used to try and find things to wear that would work for my body, but i have no money and tbh i dont think this is something clothing can fix… I just want to be able to look at myself in the mirror and be ok with myself…
i can’t really “procrastinate” translating a manhua, since it’s my own prerogative, but my brain sure makes me feel like i am.
translated an old special/side story chapter that somehow wasn’t translated by the previous group instead of translating the one i’m “supposed to”. it also turned out to be longer than the main story chapters so yay
The dolls love watching Rebel Without a Cause for the third time over
severance
I still think about the Gemma reveal at the end of S1E7 of Severance and think it might very well be my favorite scene of TV of all time. Granted, I haven’t watched a lot of shows, so the statement might not be as strong as if someone who watches more shows than me said it, but I’m pretty sure it’s true
spoiler
Brain literally will not shut up and just keeps running through all the negativity, all the things I hate, how fucked I am and how much I hate being trans and all the things that come with that and its not stopping
literally just hours and hours of this, its constant, what even is the end game here. Like okay I’m never going to be happy and I should kms can we please just have a moments break from that?? There’s not a solution so just please stop Gender is fake but also im a woman but also im not a woman i just do woman but also theres no such thing as woman but also but also but also
Can one be too skinny for injections?
Big brain yakuza theory: I propose the heat mechanics in yakuza is basically what hamon is to the jojo vers. It’s something fighters have access to and regular people have very little clue on but like hamon regular people do notice it so it’s not exactly like stands in jojo.
My trans friend is making awesome progress! I helped her get a GP appointment (intake forms were tricky and I recommended the local Very Woke clinic) so that she can get a proper referral to gender affirming care (she has that appointment already, but I want to make sure her insurance covers it). And her boss is being incredibly chill about her coming out. He is gay so he knows what kind of support she needs. Plus, she came out to other people before him just to make sure she would have support.
Before this, I was the only person in her life using her proper pronouns and name. But she is realizing how little most people think about or care if someone is trans in our city. It seems that her parents will not take her transition seriously until she starts to look different. They misgender her all the time.
Despite my personal problems with my parents, I am grateful that they are very pro LGBT libs and are using her pronouns when she comes over.
