• Seth Taylor@lemmy.world
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    I’m the only guy in my band because I’m the only member of my band

    EDIT: Oh, it says GANG-BANG. Well that’s different.

    EDIT 2: No, wait, actually it’s not. I’m alone in my gang-bang too.

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    I was under the impression that that’s the definition of a gangbang. multiple tops and only one bottom is a gangbang, multiple tops and multiple bottoms is an orgy

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      Some gangbangs have fluffers. So people that keep the dicks hard while the bottom is at full capacity.

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      Yeah, but if it was a gang bang with only one man, it would mostly look like Tom playing four jaw harps.

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        Nobody knows this

        That’s because you made it up. Duration has no bearing on whether or not group sex is an orgy

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        What? No? My partner and I (before any of you judge we’re adults and responsible) got a bit of molly last week and had sex from like 2 am to 7 am. (Water and snack breaks obv).but if I had called that an orgy she would’ve laughed her self dry!

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            They did by using the ambiguous word “it”.

            It’s irrelevant, though, because an orgy isn’t defined by duration.

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              Youre trolling right?

              • Baguette is the tastiest bread
              • Baguette just means its very long
              • No a snake isnt a baguette

              Just to clarify I wasnt trying to say they were right about an orgy being defined by going on for a long time. Just that the reason for dismissing it was nonsense

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                I’m honestly not sure what point you’re trying to make with the baguette stuff.

                They said “When it has been going on for very long.”

                What does ‘it’ mean? It can’t be an orgy because that’s what’s being defined. It could mean that an orgy is a gangbang that goes on for a while, but that really isn’t made clear at all.

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                  Like I said, Im not trying to say the commenter was correct with their statement. But providing a counterexample thats not part of the discussion is not a counterexample at all (like a snake in a discussion about bread). The comment they replied to and the post itself were clearly about group-sex. Whatever specific word was meant to replace ‘it’ does not really matter imo.

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      that’s like super gay bro, just wait for your turn bro, only 3 guys left ahead of you

    • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Basically, yes. Some men are so twisted in knots from toxic masculinity they’ll avoid enjoying themselves, even when what they want is right in from of them

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    Always wondered if men, women, trans (whoever you you want) actually enjoyed doing it, looks like it is more like work than actually enjoying the experience.

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      It depends. It’s not usually like in porn (which usually looks like work because it is)

      If it’s with people who want to have mutual enjoyment in a caring way it can be amazing, but even one selfish person can bring the whole thing down and make it feel like a chore.

      Men are more likely to be selfish.

      I got paid a lot of money once to go dogging, and it was very unpleasant and not worth it. Meanwhile, a weekend-long foursome with 3 other women is one of my most cherished memories and a go-to to think about if I feel the need to Jill off.

      Now I’m older I don’t think I’d want to do more than a threesome with two women, though. It takes a certain amount of fitness that I just can’t maintain any more.

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        So it is a matter of having partners you trust and enjoy being around. Still can’t see myself ever doing it but thanks for explaining why it works for some people.

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          Just like any sexual act, yes

          And thank you for not being judgemental :-) This isn’t something I get to talk about a lot IRL, and it’s actually nice to be able to be open and honest about it

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            Yeah I can imagine most people would look at you as a degenerate (which you aren’t) if you were to talk about it in person.

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        Can you explain again, that part in more detail, its a little confusing to me. You did what exactly like more specifically maybe an outline of the events and then perhaps someone can explain which one is Jill

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      I’ve had a bunch of group sex (cis bi male).

      Nowadays I’d not be into it, but at the time it was fun.

      i slightly skew towards preferring women but the best group sex I had, and the kind that i felt most comfortable was all men.

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        Less “competitive” mindset I think. I feel like homophobia has resulted in a lot of men taking their pent up sexual aggression out on women when they might otherwise be able to identify themselves as bi and just work out those feelings with another dude. Instead we have all these men spiraling into emotional black holes because women don’t want them right this second. I’ve heard anecdotally that if everyone felt 100% comfortable being honest bi people would probably be the true majority. So it’s not like it would fix the incel problem but there might be few enough that they couldn’t concentrate into inescapable singularities.

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          Yup, once got to see a man specifically want to receive a bj from another guy, and when it actually started he freaked out and left.

          Toxic masculinity really hurts everyone

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        Okay, I have only ever been with one partner and always felt way out of my depth soo I can’t really imagine to stress of having to pleasure or getting pleasure of multiple partners.