it’s hot. also i’m growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i’m excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?
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I went on a date with a reaaaaalllyyyy cute guy last night. We talked for like 3 hours and he kissed me goodbye. So forearms were like double the size of mine I was in a puddle at the end, this is my first time that I’ve had a guy make me feel this way and I’m like what the hell, how have I missed this my whole life 😭
I feel like I’ve always been attracted to men in kinda a different way, like they were my friend and we were the same, while women were like this other species, but i really like it flipped around lol. 😝
on a serious note: holy shit that sounds incredible and i can’t even pretend to hide my jealousy. I’d die on the spot as a happy woman if that were me
i really want to try dating men but i keep getting terrified that they won’t see me as a woman. I see myself as a woman but I’m never confidence that anyone else will. I’d sell my soul for a man to let me be the girl on a date though 😭
This guy is queer and has dated trans women before, and from what I can tell he definitely sees me as a woman, but I had the same fears and issues with men before. Also chasers are gross :(
idk, he sounds like he might still be trouble. you should give me his number and i can probe him on 5 or 6 dates to see if he’s a chaser or not