• queermunist she/her@lemmy.ml
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    12 days ago

    It probably doesn’t need to be banned, but maybe monitored? The fact that I don’t know any of my fourth cousins is exactly why the first thing that came to my mind was “arranged marriage.” Just check, make sure no one got sold to another family for a dowry.

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      12 days ago

      But again, the situation would be literally no better without a fourth cousin relationship. The fact that the couple may be fourth cousins is a total red herring, it’s got nothing to do with what’s wrong with that situation. Yes, a familial relationship is often an aspect of an organised marriage, but selling someone to another family for a dowry with no blood relationship between the couple of any degree is exactly the same as between fourth cousins. I don’t know why you are bringing the single shared pair of great, great, great grandparents into the scenario, it simply isn’t significant in any way.

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        12 days ago

        Arranged marriages are often between cousins though? It’s a way to preserve family wealth and maintain cultural values in small communities and carry on family tradition. Maybe I’m just jumping to conclusions idk it just seems like a red flag to me.