You make it sound easy, but tone plays a HUGE role. “Do you need a break?” sounds waaay different than, “You need to tell me why you’re ignoring me” (using different words because such subtle tone is nigh impossible to convey in text for the likes of me)
Asking is very much NOT “free” depending on how it is asked.
Yeah that right there is a classic example of what we don’t want. You haven’t contributed anything to the discussion you’ve just made it go off the rails. Why is insulting people your go-to? It wasn’t even called for, no one’s even said anything that should have upset you. It’s just weird.
feel free to contribute to the class discussion, you have proven a complete lack of communication skills by just calling me names without any explanation on why. Perhaps you should read on how to better provide your input in conversations?
And now you don’t even show the reading comprehension skills of a 6th grader so you seem to be under the age ppl should be on social media.
So due to your lack of abilities let me spell it out for you: You yourself said that good communication skills are a must for adults, while displaying very hostile communication not beneficial of discussions. Then you project your own lack of skills onto others and post a link you yourself won’t follow or haven’t read.
I rly hope you are under 14 or you have a lot to get to.
I did provide a direct link for you to read about constructive criticism. you might call it passive aggressive, but it wasn’t a “no you dumb baby cant communicate”. unlike your response
There is a correct choice, leave, you don’t have to stay with people who will make you second guess yourself then blame you when you fail to be a psychic.
Yeah I had that when I was like 16 and dating for the first time. I think she just read some trashy women’s magazine or something with bad relationship advice and was trying to implement it. But sod that noise.
People need to be at a certain level of emotional maturity in order to be in a relationship and if they’re not they just make everybody around them unhappy. Their inability to effectively communicate is not your problem. Perhaps you leaving is the best thing that could happen because it will force them to actually grow up.
Note this is not relationship advice, I’ve been in like three relationships and only the last one was really serious. It’s probably is a good idea talk to someone professional though.
just fucking ask,
“Are you ok? want to talk about it or do you want some space (bring a snack just in case)?”
We don’t need to be empaths or psychics to know what’s on other people’s minds, asking is free.
“Babe, the internet said I should ask, what game should I play?”
You make it sound easy, but tone plays a HUGE role. “Do you need a break?” sounds waaay different than, “You need to tell me why you’re ignoring me” (using different words because such subtle tone is nigh impossible to convey in text for the likes of me)
Asking is very much NOT “free” depending on how it is asked.
I assumedbasic communication skills because I assumed everyone is a grown-up.
Probably that’s not the case for most adults
You are correct: Most humans have not matured past the age of 15, if online discourse is anything to go by.
well. then it’s better not to have romantic or intimate relationships with people who are mentally 15.
Well I mean you yourself seem to not display good communication skills, so I assume you are underage?
Yeah that right there is a classic example of what we don’t want. You haven’t contributed anything to the discussion you’ve just made it go off the rails. Why is insulting people your go-to? It wasn’t even called for, no one’s even said anything that should have upset you. It’s just weird.
feel free to contribute to the class discussion, you have proven a complete lack of communication skills by just calling me names without any explanation on why. Perhaps you should read on how to better provide your input in conversations?
Some people would probably benefit from actually putting their comments through an AI and then having it go “naw mate, don’t post that.”
And now you don’t even show the reading comprehension skills of a 6th grader so you seem to be under the age ppl should be on social media.
So due to your lack of abilities let me spell it out for you: You yourself said that good communication skills are a must for adults, while displaying very hostile communication not beneficial of discussions. Then you project your own lack of skills onto others and post a link you yourself won’t follow or haven’t read.
I rly hope you are under 14 or you have a lot to get to.
I did provide a direct link for you to read about constructive criticism. you might call it passive aggressive, but it wasn’t a “no you dumb baby cant communicate”. unlike your response
Tried that but she would rather make me guess because she doesn’t know either but whatever choice I make it’s guaranteed to be the wrong one
There is a correct choice, leave, you don’t have to stay with people who will make you second guess yourself then blame you when you fail to be a psychic.
Yeah I had that when I was like 16 and dating for the first time. I think she just read some trashy women’s magazine or something with bad relationship advice and was trying to implement it. But sod that noise.
People need to be at a certain level of emotional maturity in order to be in a relationship and if they’re not they just make everybody around them unhappy. Their inability to effectively communicate is not your problem. Perhaps you leaving is the best thing that could happen because it will force them to actually grow up.
Note this is not relationship advice, I’ve been in like three relationships and only the last one was really serious. It’s probably is a good idea talk to someone professional though.