• xx3rawr@sh.itjust.works
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    23 days ago

    Tried that but she would rather make me guess because she doesn’t know either but whatever choice I make it’s guaranteed to be the wrong one

    • 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.world
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      23 days ago

      There is a correct choice, leave, you don’t have to stay with people who will make you second guess yourself then blame you when you fail to be a psychic.

    • Echo Dot@feddit.uk
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      23 days ago

      Yeah I had that when I was like 16 and dating for the first time. I think she just read some trashy women’s magazine or something with bad relationship advice and was trying to implement it. But sod that noise.

      People need to be at a certain level of emotional maturity in order to be in a relationship and if they’re not they just make everybody around them unhappy. Their inability to effectively communicate is not your problem. Perhaps you leaving is the best thing that could happen because it will force them to actually grow up.

      Note this is not relationship advice, I’ve been in like three relationships and only the last one was really serious. It’s probably is a good idea talk to someone professional though.