• LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
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    19 days ago

    You make it sound easy, but tone plays a HUGE role. “Do you need a break?” sounds waaay different than, “You need to tell me why you’re ignoring me” (using different words because such subtle tone is nigh impossible to convey in text for the likes of me)

    Asking is very much NOT “free” depending on how it is asked.

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        19 days ago

        Well I mean you yourself seem to not display good communication skills, so I assume you are underage?

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          19 days ago

          Yeah that right there is a classic example of what we don’t want. You haven’t contributed anything to the discussion you’ve just made it go off the rails. Why is insulting people your go-to? It wasn’t even called for, no one’s even said anything that should have upset you. It’s just weird.

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            19 days ago

            Some people would probably benefit from actually putting their comments through an AI and then having it go “naw mate, don’t post that.”

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            18 days ago

            And now you don’t even show the reading comprehension skills of a 6th grader so you seem to be under the age ppl should be on social media.

            So due to your lack of abilities let me spell it out for you: You yourself said that good communication skills are a must for adults, while displaying very hostile communication not beneficial of discussions. Then you project your own lack of skills onto others and post a link you yourself won’t follow or haven’t read.

            I rly hope you are under 14 or you have a lot to get to.

            • 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.world
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              18 days ago

              I did provide a direct link for you to read about constructive criticism. you might call it passive aggressive, but it wasn’t a “no you dumb baby cant communicate”. unlike your response