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bottom surgery first month done~
Finally, dilating only 3x a day. It takes so much time from set up, to dilate, to wash, to dry - and doing it 4 times a day ends up with me spending most of the day dilating or finishing up dilating. In terms of healing, everything looks good! No fibrin, no hypergranulation, not even any discharge. According to the surgeons post op care timeline, this is when Im supposed to be “exploring my clit and labia” - sorry, gotta flick my bean, surgeons orders lol. It does help sensation come back. Things arent as numb anymore, which is great, a few times while Ive been out Ive had this like weird shocks sensation? Totally normal, it just means nerves are coming back online. People keep saying its “reconnecting” which anatomically doesnt make a lot of sense to me and I think its more just compression from swelling is starting to come down.
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Had a great long Valentines!
I get wet, apparently easily lol. First time it happened I thought I was bleeding. Nope! Just wet after tying a girl up and her grinding while we made out. Im not supposed to be using my vagina for sex… so I didnt! Pure topping with toys and hands and oral 😇
I suspect they also don’t want people bottoming anally while recovering, which is fine by me.
Being horny that often did, I think, also help bring some sensation back.
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