• tory@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Using the term “normies” paints you as having a superiority complex, which isn’t the best look.

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      Really? I just interpreted the use of normie here as “layperson” or “average user” and thought it was completely harmless.

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        1 year ago

        Have someone refer to you as a normie and lmk if it feels neutral or derogatory.

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          I can’t imagine normies getting worked up over what some internet nerd calls them

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            That’s neither here nor there and sidesteps the point. Also, depending on how you define normies and nerds, it’s a bit silly. You can’t imagine a random person being worked up by being called names online. I mean, okay, if you say so.

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        Yes, it means layperson, but with derogatory cense. It is like using the n-word to describe black people (though not as extreme). If you mean average user, just say average user, unless you really mean to use derogatory term, that is.

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    I recently got a confused look when I said that I pay for my email provider (3€/mo, but 1€/mo would also work).

    Many people don’t realize that operating an email server creates cost and they pay with letting Google/Yahoo/… read and analyze their communication.

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    I think the funniest part of this meme is every company bar Amazon, Discord (both not in market yet), and TikTok (Chinese) were confirmed to be a part of NSA’s PRISM

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    “But why would they care about MY data, I don’t do anything special”

    Anyone outside of tech when I even passingly mention privacy

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        What’s the counter to that sentence then?

        Every time I try to explain why this is a dumb sentence using the door lock analogy I always get rebuffed by it.

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          All the answers you got show why this conversation goes badly. No one can come up with an actual problem that data collection causes, it’s all silly comparisons to giving people your credit card number or shitting in front of them.

          For me, having my data collected is like having CCTV cameras in stores. Yeah, technically someone is filming everything I do. Yeah it would be bad if a private individual was filming me for nefarious reasons. But no one actually uses that data for anything bad, and it doesn’t actually cause any problems.

          All that happens is I get more relevant ads.

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    ‘There’s no point fighting it’ or ‘Privacy is already dead’

    The arguments that make my eye twitch, It’s such a defeatist outlook but seems like the most common nowadays.

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      There is a 3rd argument which I think is a bit more valid in “I value the service I receive in exchange for my personal data”

      Using the internet without an adblocker, noscript, and whatever else is really nasty. But even if you aren’t on these platforms, marketers are still building profiles on you. Honestly we need data privacy legislation and some real talk about marketing and the costs of using the internet as a society.

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        That argument pisses me off.

        “I don’t mind so fuck you.”

        If you want to use those services, that’s your business. But I don’t use those services; they still keep my data.

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      Everyone says this kind of stuff about any and every social issue. It drives me insane, do people not realize that it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy? If everyone I heard say “there’s no point fighting it” got together and fought it, they’d easily win.

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        I’m genuinely curious, who exactly do you think will do the fighting?

        Cuz I can tell you who will be the first pushed forward, and that’s young men and women. I can’t speak for women so I won’t. However, not sure if you’ve noticed, but we’ve got several generations of young men that have been taught that they are literally everything that’s wrong with everything and are treated like it. What exactly would those young men be fighting for?

        Of course they’re defeatist. They have been trained to be.

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          Took me a long time to break out of the programming. I feel you.

          It helps to understand that the phrase “you have value; you are worthy” is objectively true. It’s not a matter of opinion. It is a fact. You are a sentient person, therefore you matter. You are deserving of dignity, respect, and love. Anyone who says otherwise is just wrong. It’s like saying 2+2=5. They’re just not correct.

          We need to address this on a societal level. And not via right wing douchebros.