Notice how all of mine were things for which little money is spent in the process. Lol.

Same AF.

Still try and do the thing. Just don’t tell anyone until it’s done!

I believe in your book idea/code project/game concept/movie script!

The trick is to tell no one and still do nothing! You get to keep the friends and the anxiety!

Marry him.

Knowing is half the battle.

I was one of those “gifted children that was too lazy” and my mother was one of those “nothing can be wrong with my child or it reflects poorly on me!” and I got diagnosed with full blown ADHD at 29.

Therapy and drugs are great. And I’m glad you were aware enough to get your child tested. Early is for their best.

ADHDar+gaydar is how I find boyfriends apparently. I should use different criteria.

Incredibly.

And it’s funny, I’m pretty sure he has a couple accounts. Any time I post something about him, as soon as he responds, I get multiple down votes at the same time.

Sure Jan

Dunno specifically how to do that. I just saw it because I browse by new in everything.

Edit: Found it! https://lemmy.world/c/transracial

He even has a transracial sub. Legitimately just for posting inflammatory shit to conflate with the trans movement. Same shit as trying to list pedos under the lgbtq+ movement.

This boy is hot garbage.

I live in the IH-10 corridor in one of the rainiest parts of Texas. Crime and rain are normal for me.

As for the cold? Bring it. If I can deal with 110°, hurricanes, no power for 8 days in summer, no power for 3 days in frozen temps, I can take Seattle. At least they prepare to be frozen.

Am on sniffies. Its fine if the city has a population over 120k. Small towns not as much.

And I would rather live in a place where I don’t have to worry about a supreme court decision leading to a trigger law in our Texas constitution sending me to prison for fucking the person I want.

Even tho the supreme court invalidated the law via Lawrence v Texas, it’s fundamental basis was the right to privacy that was invalidated by the Dobbs decision. If (and when given the state of things) the supreme court revisits the topic, the original law is still in the state constitution.

Fuck this shitty state. I’d prefer it was broken up and I lived in the state of Houston. In fairness, California should also be broken up. But that’s beside the point.

Remind me not to visit your place.

Can I get resettled from Texas for this?

All I got was toxoplasmosis.

Posiwid

It’s all about creating a permission structure for people to change their minds without breaking their minds.

Allow them to change with grace and acceptance and embrace them for changing.

Sounds like a hell of an Isekai.

Nah. They would name it Spspspspspiosis.