I mean isn’t it just as reactionary to suppose people “just don’t want to do it”, I.e. that there is some non-material factor influencing human behaviour?
How is saying individuals have preferences about living their life reactionary? The reactionary part here is psychoanalyzing people that don’t want kids and trying to fix it, maybe just leave them be? There are a lot of people that would like to have kids in better material conditions and will explicitly tell you that in pretty much those words, why not just take people at their word when they say they don’t want kids?
If you did the same kind of psychoanalyzing to queer people and try to adjust their material conditions so they stop being queer you’d be called out for it but this is somehow fine.
No, I’m saying that nothing “just is”, and it’s not wrong to not want kids, but there are reasons behind not wanting kids, whether or not someone is readily able to see them is another thing entirely.
I mean isn’t it just as reactionary to suppose people “just don’t want to do it”, I.e. that there is some non-material factor influencing human behaviour?
How is saying individuals have preferences about living their life reactionary? The reactionary part here is psychoanalyzing people that don’t want kids and trying to fix it, maybe just leave them be? There are a lot of people that would like to have kids in better material conditions and will explicitly tell you that in pretty much those words, why not just take people at their word when they say they don’t want kids?
If you did the same kind of psychoanalyzing to queer people and try to adjust their material conditions so they stop being queer you’d be called out for it but this is somehow fine.
No, I’m saying that nothing “just is”, and it’s not wrong to not want kids, but there are reasons behind not wanting kids, whether or not someone is readily able to see them is another thing entirely.
Sure, there are also reasons for why some people don’t like the taste of beer, doesn’t mean we have to hem and haw about it endlessly.