• 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    and?

    seriously, what’s the problem?

    You have a dick, and as your story, had partners who enjoyed playing with it.

    FUCK whoever made up the BS that size is important.

    It works, it can give you and your partner orgasm, what else there is?

    want a bigger one for funsies? get a penis sleve.

    Seriously, no one should care. if a partner makes you feel bad about your size, that is not a partner but a shit human being and should get the boot, imagine going to bed with a woman then laughing at her for some BS like having tits smaller than average? you see how shitty that sounds, I feel bad just writing this hypothetical.

    For fucks sake, lesbians can have great sex without any penis involved.

    And from personal experience, my smaller than average penis still satisfies partners (enough for them to come back).

    Only concern would be if it doesn’t work, but that is a medical issue and not a personal failure.

    • village604@adultswim.fan
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      Also, having a large penis isn’t always a good thing. You have to be careful not to bottom out, and even if you don’t the size can cause pain. Plus if it’s too big she’ll probably have a more difficult time even getting it in her mouth.

      It can definitely narrow your pool of potential partners.

      • fishy@lemmy.today
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        I’m slightly above average and even that’s too much for a lot of stuff. BJ’s are meh because their jaws always get tired after a few minutes, can’t go hard because you will break her, anal is just off the table, less frequency because she’s sore.

        Honestly, it’s overrated.

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        Yeah my ex wife made me pretty self conscious about it. Like its all fun and games until she said “ow.”

        I’m in a new relationship and I havent hit yet, but she knows Im larger. Given how easy I’ve bottomed out my ex, im a bit worried, because it gonna be soon if we can find an opportunity (takes about an hour to get to her place).

        Fallatio has usually resulted in painful jaws and a lack of satisfaction for both parties because of it.

        Not to mention toilets. Nothing is quite so uncomfortable.

        • ButteryMonkey@piefed.social
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          As a woman with a short vaginal tract, we have mostly developed ways to try to avoid the discomfort that sort of helps, usually, if our partners pay attention.

          For example, if she always has her hands on your hips or thighs in certain positions that limit your thrusts, don’t push past that. That’s protective, not seductive.

          But a conversation can clear it all right up before it’s an issue. She might have plenty of length to accommodate yours, or she might like the feeling of hitting her cervix. Many women do. Idk why, but they do.

          Just like men are all different sizes, women are too :)

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            Depends on how relaxed I am, similar to a deep tissue massage. Hubs has a Goldilocks dick it’s juuust big enough to stretch me out if I’m craving it, otherwise like you said I just position myself to not let him that deep. Incidentally, he’s the same way.

    • Chippys_mittens@lemmy.worldOP
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      When someone drives a very loud expensive car what is commonly said they are compensating for? This is the society we live in.

      • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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        doesn’t mean it isn’t bullshit.

        Sad that all the body positivity movement for women hasn’t crossed to men. we 100% need that too. Especially given how penis size messes up so many men.

        And women who say they are size queens or only want a tall man are the ones who should be shamed.

        go enjoy life.

    • TerdFerguson@lemmy.world
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      Im medium-grade on a good day, but I can make my wife squirt any occasion pretty much.

      Sure I’d love a giant dongus, but sex is a skill game not a size one.