Ugh society. Don’t know how much this is being neurodivergent and how much is being a human, but not being romantically chosen is super tough— it has been my entire life and still feels exactly the same unfortunately. Kinda leaves you in no man’s land in a way (especially as you get older) because some assume there must be something wrong if you’re not partnered by this age. Just really sucks, for so many reasons

Probably just need to work towards some sort of acceptance

  • Mordred [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    7 days ago

    It is normal to feel how you do about it and there is also some degree of luck in partnering. Dating is also pretty terrible nowadays. Good luck and I hope peace and happiness find you regardless.

    • Hohsia [any]@hexbear.netOP
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      5 days ago

      Truly appreciate it. It just really fucking sucks all around because I have to see all of the people close to me who are single bringing their dates around

      And of course I know this isn’t the case, but it truly feels like they’re rubbing it in my face, So it obviously makes more sense to stay inside all the time so I’m not reminded of what I’m missing (because it seems to come to me randomly every 5 or 6 years). Would genuinely rather be dead at times I’m not gonna lie