Has anyone here ever abruptly ended a personal relationship with someone or even an entire group of friends, simply because you found their behavior or way of being distasteful?
I’m not talking about a massive dramatic argument, but rather a sudden realization that their attitude or actions were just entirely… “off putting”… or that they revealed something fundamental about who they are
That kind of long term inauthenticity scares the shit out of me, because I imagine the longer it goes on the more sunk costs compel you to keep doing it until you’re encased forever in the amber of your own immaturity.
This guy is already past 40 so I don’t even know how he’d change for the better at this point