​Has anyone here ever abruptly ended a personal relationship with someone or even an entire group of friends, simply because you found their behavior or way of being distasteful?

​I’m not talking about a massive dramatic argument, but rather a sudden realization that their attitude or actions were just entirely… “off putting”… or that they revealed something fundamental about who they are

  • PraiseCorn [they/them, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    6 days ago

    My “friend” who i tolerated for way too long that hung out with chud freeze-gamer flat out said in a call with me and his chud friends he was gonna vote for Trump in 24. I ghosted him from then on and when he had the gall to dm me on discord randomly being all quirk chungus bro gamer meme speak I fucking blocked his ass on everything. I talked to my therapist like yea probably a massive crypto nazi chud but I genuinely at the time had no one else to play games with and I knew him since middle school but she rightfully told me to block his ass which I did about a year too late. Fucking piece of shit. I know better now too absolutely fuck off from relationships if they are performative selective allies or crypto nazis. Recently my best friend was all wishy washy on charlie-kirk getting capped like ohh I know he was an asshole but personally as a cishet white man I feel no one should be killed for what they believe. smug-explain while I wasnt even necessarily saying he deserved (to his face) I just said he had it coming and he was all disappointed. On top of that I made a half joke half serious about me being an SW as a trans person and he literally was all shocked and lowkey said some awful shit about SWs being gross and then I being kinda mad, said easy for you to say as a cishet white man, which in my defense is just statistically reflective of trans people being forced into SW out of precarity more than cishet men. But he was super pissed so I kinda just backed off. Idk, our relationship is kinda on the ropes ngl. Christian conservative bff Arc 2028 coming up soon??? agony-consuming