I think I’ve asked this before a long time ago.

One of my paranoid tinfoil hat theories is that I think cringe culture was pushed by algorithms and has now has become a convenient tool for the right to groom people into policing ‘otherness’ more harshly. I think it’s because it has that particular right-wing playbook stank to it and because I can smell that style of using shame to manipulate that right-wingers love from a mile away. Hell, this site came from a part of the left that was originally a reaction to that, using bullying but instead using it to punch back at the punchers, so to speak (although we’ve changed a little and good, it’s not needed anymore because everyone bullies chuds now).

Cringe culture was big around 2016ish, while it mostly targeted blue hair liberals it often extended to making fun of whatever marginalized group you can think of.

It was always there, of course, but not enough to actually be taken seriously unless you had high-school bully brain. Anyone that wasn’t a chud or too tech illiterate to curate their algorithm tended to lose interest. Fast forward to the 20s’ and now instead of targeting specific marginalized groups or political stuff, there is a more widespread sort of bullying towards any sort of ‘otherness’. Strong emotions, being passionate, being too quirky, looking out of place, being too young, being too old. Being too much of well, anything. Let’s just say it’s not a fun time to be neurodiverengent in particular.

So we know from those files that Gamergate (and I think some Chan spaces?) were involved with promoting right-wing idiology. Well, sure is interesting that after people started posting about the Israel genocide on tiktok, the US freaked out and took control. And now we see a massive resurgence of cringe culture, again. Alongside with other right-wing garbage (think manosphere and so on)

Of course, it’s always been there and is likely just a totally organic consequence of people growing up with social media and the digital panopticon. But notice how everything that is cringe fits neatly into what the right think the left is? I wouldn’t be surprised if we learn in a decade or so that all of this was at least taken advantage of by the right as a form of social policing, a way to undo all that pesky self acceptance and understanding the lgbtq community and other marginalised groups worked so hard to normalise. It’s a way to punish outgroups while getting under the libs “safe to make fun of” radar (and many leftists too, you are not immune!) Seems like a good way for the right to bring back that repressive order they love so much and make everyone afraid to step out of their assigned role again.

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    Sorry, but I have to disagree. My wife was unable to breastfeed our daughter due to a medication she was on, and all the shaming we faced for using formula was super fucking enraging. That’s gotta be a fairly common occurance so its no suprise that there’s a legion of angry parents out there ready to jump at your throat if they think you’re shaming them

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      That’s gotta be a fairly common occurance

      Obviously we’re just trading anecdotes, but we never got flak for doing alternating between breastmilk and formula. Did hear from people who thought it was “weird” breastfeeding a baby for more than a couple months.

      However, it’s not just the complaining about the pro-breastfeeding camp. It’s that it would typically come with a lot of glazing of formula that sounded like it came off of PR copy.

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        Glazing the formula companies is super weird. We had to be formula exclusive during the big shortage in 2022, and I hate those companies with my life. Maybe I have not seen the kind of comments you were talking about because that sounds incredibly suspicious

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          That’s the tricky thing with astroturfing, often it’s not that the entire thing is astroturfed. That’s just the catalyst, or it latches onto a zeitgeist.