• fannin [he/him, he/him]@hexbear.netOP
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      9 months ago

      I don’t have to be nice to people who think I’ve done unforgivable wrong and they are sweet innocent niceness

      I know what I did was wrong and I nearly killed myself over it

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          9 months ago

          Never said I was entitled to forgiveness. What I said I don’t have to be nice to people who want me to kill myself. Nice ableism btw

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              9 months ago

              It was the other way around, they lashed out at me, and well beyond you did bad and should feel bad, would have been right about that. I get to lash out at people who tell me to kill myself when I very nearly did, and I don’t make any apologies.

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                  9 months ago

                  I don’t have to justify myself to you. I’m deeply ashamed of the fact I joined the military because I thought it was an ordinary job, and I resigned the second I realized it wasn’t. But I don’t have to listen to tell me to kill myself without reacting to it like a human.

                  • LENINSGHOSTFACEKILLA [he/him]@hexbear.netM
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                    9 months ago

                    Gonna be real with you comrade, telling american soldiers to burn in hell here is common place, and will not change. I really don’t think it should either. That said, it is good that you have seen your failures of the past and have moved to the winning side. But this comrade did not lash out at you in particular. It was a general statement, one that is generally accurate, and you took it personally. Your comments have been reported for being imperialist, and while I’m not going to delete them, I think you should. This comrade and others who have been wronged do not owe you forgiveness, or even kindness.

                    You’ve grown and changed over the years, excellent. But none of us can expect them to forgive you or play nice about it.

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                    9 months ago

                    I hate all US active and former military goons. Their sad and depressing fates are better then they deserve. Burn in hell.

                    Did any of this comment refer to you in particular?