• goferking (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.org
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    2 days ago

    Are they saying it’s victim blaming when they said the entire point of their post was to get people to argue?

    Or they are upset their own comm isn’t getting moderated by other instances which they also hate because that’s overreacting

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      They are just having a tantrum and in true Western “leftist” fashion they prefer to claim to be the aggrieved party and using this to lash out.

      IRL you’ve gotta get ahead of this kind of thing because it is rampant and toxic and often just a cover for bullying or abusive behavior.

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        Wild seeing how often mods or admins just put their ass out at the slightest response.

        For example on the dbo powertrippingbastards comm worlds Lund is going wild on anyone pointing how how much of a power tripping mod they are

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          An extreme aversion to introspection or receiving criticism tends to create these scenarios and tends to go hand-in-hand with self-soothing egotistical behaviors. It frequently comes from a place of pain but at some point a person needs to have responsibility for the harms they cause or to be ostracized to prevent further harm.