I get what you mean, the idea I think is that this should be planner(job) not planner(needs a plan). If the latter, I totally get you, though sometimes it’s still healthy to be surprised every so often.
Some interesting things have been said about I assume me in this thread. First I’m not any kind of main character, I know I’m hard to deal with so the fact that a person is still willing to put up with me take the place of “thoughtful gift”. The people that stay in my life are very much like me so they just innately get it, the problem is when thus stuff comes from the periphery.
I’m reasonably easy to interact with, just use as few words as possible to convey what needs conveyed, if thats not you we’ll likely never see each other again.
They mean the friend who’s always making all the plans sometimes needs other people in the group to take some initiative.
They even said “sometimes” in there and you still felt the need to reply “No”. Like come on. Not everyone is the same as you and most people appreciate others in their life caring about them.
The people in your life know that caring for you means leaving you alone. They are caring for you in the way you need the most, right?
That’s not what they mean. They mean the friend who’s always making all the plans sometimes needs other people in the group to take some initiative.
That doesn’t match my experience with the term surprise, but I trust you.
I get what you mean, the idea I think is that this should be planner(job) not planner(needs a plan). If the latter, I totally get you, though sometimes it’s still healthy to be surprised every so often.
No
You’re a bit of an outlier here, let’s be honest lol
The point still stands…
Some interesting things have been said about I assume me in this thread. First I’m not any kind of main character, I know I’m hard to deal with so the fact that a person is still willing to put up with me take the place of “thoughtful gift”. The people that stay in my life are very much like me so they just innately get it, the problem is when thus stuff comes from the periphery.
I’m reasonably easy to interact with, just use as few words as possible to convey what needs conveyed, if thats not you we’ll likely never see each other again.
They even said “sometimes” in there and you still felt the need to reply “No”. Like come on. Not everyone is the same as you and most people appreciate others in their life caring about them.
The people in your life know that caring for you means leaving you alone. They are caring for you in the way you need the most, right?