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vestmoria

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    I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self?

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  • This is like the 6th thread I’ve seen on here by you, every one almost identical in that you hate your job, you hate everyone there, everyone is mean to you, everyone else is lazy, etc

    then read the thread again dude, apparently you didn't notice I no longer work there

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  • People won’t like you for it but you won’t care.

    actually, some unidentified coworkers complained I'm not friendly and the way I speak is demanding.

    My former supervisor seemed to care about this because she came to me with these accusations, repeatedly. I still don't know if this something big enough to fire somebody.

    I don't care, don't give a fuck but apparently hr does...

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  • Don’t give a fuck attitude going forward is a must.

    I'm gonna have to ask you to explain here:

    I stopped giving a fuck about my coworkers 2 weeks before calling in sick, like, fuck them and I hope they burn in hell. If I ever have to set foot at that god forsaken piece of shit ward I'm calling in sick again. Fuck em.

    I also don't give a fuck about any of my former managers.

    I don't want to to say I don't give a flying fuck about my current hospital, because I'm staying with them on a different role until I find something better, which may or may not happen, but it's a clock in clock out and I'm fucking done with you and fuck you asshole situation

    you suggest not giving a fuck even going forward? but I do need to give a fuck not to lose my new position until I have secured a newer one, right? I don't even know if I'm going to hate the new position away from patients as much as the ward.

    you other 3 bullet points are great though

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  • so I'm going to have a way to work and sustain myself while doing some therapy?

    Did you do therapy or simply started your new job and somehow your brain forgot that part of your former life? Talked to friends?

    I'll watch the video now

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  • I don't want to go to work dreading having to go to work, I don't want to think about how I'm going to be yelled at, what snarky remarks I'm gonna have to hear, what coworkers are going to lazy around while I work and their sit on their asses, I don't want to prepare a working plan for the day only to be completely ignored by a coworker that, while not my superior, feels and acts like it only because she's been there longer than me.

    I don't want to go to work in fear.

    this looks like PTSD now.

    I want to go to work to do the job to the best of my abilities feeling rested, to do my pauses as stipulated in the contract, to avoid drama and go home.

  • how are you able to care more about your job itself than the people at your job?

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  • your answer is some kind of zen level wisdom I still need to master.

    Happy that you can, but apparently I cannot (yet?)

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    does the new employee eventually stop being the one given the most tasks?

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  • or admit I hate nursing and I have to quit bedside.

    really. I hate nursing.

  • does the new employee eventually stop being the one given the most tasks?

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  • are you sure you didn't mean to say 'you are'?

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    does the new employee eventually stop being the one given the most tasks?

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  • you mean half assing...

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    does the new employee eventually stop being the one given the most tasks?

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  • if this is true, it's better I work alone

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    does the new employee eventually stop being the one given the most tasks?

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  • yes

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    I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life?

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  • wow... good post

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    I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life?

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  • none of us actually care about how anyone else’s weekends were or how the other person’s kids are doing.

    got it, you ask to fake interest in the other person so he feels valued. Seems ridiculous and a waste of intellect.

    It seems the best I can do is working alone. These rituals are way too complicated for me.

  • what does it mean being nice to your coworkers to you?

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  • does this also work with women? most nurses I work with are women and are simply incapable of being silent more than 2 minutes.

    they may be offended in short term. but in the long you will have more respect.

    they WILL be offended and proceed to furiously talk behind my back and destroy my credibility

  • what does it mean being nice to your coworkers to you?

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  • I'm very introverted and to me any kind of question about me is a prying one: my age, where I was born, how long I've been living where I am. I simply don't get why I have to tell my coworkers about this, nor I understand why they get offended if I don't answer the question. If I'm fired or I quit I'm not going to see them ever again. Who cares?

    I'm a nurse and at my hospital there are rituals that bore me but anyone else finds, apparently, great: after report, talking time, usually 30 minutes. They talk about boring stuff, are loud and obnoxious, I simply don't understand why adults act like this. I read to pass the time, but have to be there with them because we're officially working. This happens at least three times per shift: once more to have lunch (for whatever reason we ALL must have lunch together, even if it means not having your own chair) and after charting, where, once again, I must remain with them because that's officially working time. If I leave, have a seat in the pause room and start reading, I get yelled at, no matter than I can also hear the bell from there.

    It gets very boring. God my new job cannot start soon enough.

    I don't have the luxury of having my own working station.

    I've started to do extra chores just not to have to hear them. It also reduces the chance of them asking me about me.

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    what does it mean being nice to your coworkers to you?

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  • that would be cruel, this is a very insensitive comment

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    I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life?

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  • being nice is all it takes.

    if you mean I have to do this I shouldn't even waste my time and look for jobs where I work alone. Step 2 is already Get to know your coworkers which for the most part, are irrelevant to me. And I can't fake that.

    Saying hi is not enough?

    I have no problem with those who have something interesting to say but most of them for the most part care about stuff so asinine it makes me want to kill them and then myself.

    Either I learn really fast to deflect very successfully or I start working alone. To keep my sanity.

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    I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life?

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  • You don’t have to socialize. But being a decent person means sacrificing your comfort for others’ sometimes.

    you seem to imply there's something like a middle point between fully socializing and being decent, which I guess means talking but less? Is this so?

  • I'm on the spectrum. How do I live the rest of my life?

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  • Yeah every single one of your coworkers is childish on an elementary school level, sure.

    I guess I should've written 'my coworkers sometimes behave like elementary school children' which is every time they have nothing to do. This is what I feel. I guess to them, they ain't being childish but engaging. To me it still feels childish.

    You either work with a ton of real weirdos, or more likely are way overemphasizig to get people to take your complaints more seriously.

    I don't believe I'm overemphasizing. This is how perceive reality. And I haven't even started with the patient population

    Your perception of yourself and your coworkers is not as objective and devoid of emotion as you think.

    you are right, everything I wrote is how I perceive reality, which is, mostly subjective, but to me it still feels objective, if that makes sense. I don't believe my post (the one that started the thread) is objective, it's how I perceive my coworkers.

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    nurses who changed specialties, how many months working full time did you need to stand on your feet at your new unit/specialty?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    what tips do you have to survive job hunting?

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    vestmoria @linux.community

    humble, introverted self asks for your advice about human behavior at the workplace. Please read below:

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    is it normal that I need to apply more sunscreen to certain parts of my body?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    In your career, have you found a drama free workplace?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    if you like doing your job and going home, how do you bear with coworkers who are lazier but more popular than you and get away with doing less?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    do humans shed more skin when sunbathing?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    what's your experience washing sneakers in the washing machine?

  • Linux @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    Is there any way to brute delete stock firmware on a redmi 10c with debian? do you know of any compatible foss OS I could install on this device?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    Is there any way to find out if I've been blocked from a community?

  • Linux @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    can you link a guide to flash custom firmware (lineageos) on debian on a redmi 9c or help me flash it?

  • Technology @lemmy.world
    vestmoria @linux.community

    what lemmy web app do you use and why?

  • Android @lemmy.world
    vestmoria @linux.community

    what lemmy app do you recommend and why?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    If you take care of your parents or other elderly, how are you preparing to age gracefully?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    If you or somebody you know ever fell for a romance scam, how did you or the person fall for it?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    is Texas really that cold and cruel as depicted in movies of the Coen brothers, the novels of Cormac Mccarthy and the movie Hell or High Water?

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    vestmoria @linux.community

    Parents with genuinely good looking sons but mostly daughters. How do you make sure they don't build their whole personality around looks?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    Those of you who are friendly with your coworkers but no friends, where exactly do you lay the boundary?

  • Work Reform @lemmy.world
    vestmoria @linux.community

    to those of you who get bored at work if there's lots of downtime, why?

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    vestmoria @linux.community

    to those of you who get bored at work if there's lots of downtime, why?