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if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people?
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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前
you sound like a complete asshole dude
right back at you

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

whatever you want to think so you sleep quiet at night, healthcare worker :D

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

it's ok, I'm also jaded.

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

I'm glad that putting up with not-so-smart people works for you, and I'm glad that you can give attention to people who are so in need of it. I'll pass.

you still didn't write what you do in healthcare though.

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

a strange, convoluted way of admitting you're angry and I'm the reason why :D

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

A few words in and I could already tell who it was

no, it's because several users did that before you

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

Why don’t you tell these two “experts” to shut up and leave me alone?

I don't know if each workplace is like this, but at my hospital people are very, extremely thin skinned and if somebody feels offended because I prefer to keep to myself and to learn instead of talking about their boring lives they start acting like teenagers: he is unfriendly, he doesn't talk to me, he thinks he is better than me, can you believe that? and much worse stuff. It's usually a minority but this minority is large enough so most of the neutral ones within the group are cowed into saying nothing, because otherwise they're the ones being talked about and suddenly considered not a team player, not a good employee...

very sad but true.

It doesn't make sense to work in a group that behaves like this, not worth my peace of mind.

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

It’s a common form of hazing.

jesus chirst, I just read the wikipedia article on hazing and now I'm scared.

You can’t control them, but you can refuse to engage at their jr high level.

they'll badmouth me all the way to management.

better to stay where I am. Holy crap.

Why do people have to be like this?

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

and having to manage personalities full-time is not in my bandwidth

precisely, neither in mine.

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

That answer could gain you enemies even if you don’t even interview if it’s not kept confidential.

for sure. nurses can be this vicious

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

then you really have no idea what you're talking about.

oh, you're an moderator. thanks for not deleting this thread because it bothers you I guess.

what do you do in healthcare?

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

why does my post trigger you so much? calm down.

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

This is gen z...

ok boomer

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vestmoria @linux.community 3周前

So right up front, you want to inform your supervisors

they're not my supervisors, they MIGHT be, though.

And you think that’s going to go well for you?

I don't know how it's going to go. What I don't want is to work with those 2. Peace of mind is more important than advancing a career.

You call me weird for not wanting to work with people who drain me... well, all power to you.

Are you angry at me because I actually get to choose the people I work with? My actual gig is very light on the drama side. If somebody pesters me I get to leave that place.

and choose another candidate for the job.

good luck with that. You clearly don't work healthcare. Are you a manager btw?

You don’t get to choose who you work with

actually I do, everybody does, you can quit, you can work part time, you can start looking for a job that better fits you and then either 2 week notice it or quit on the spot. You mean you've never met people who quit not the job itself but a manager, a charge or certain coworkers? I don't know if YOU cannot choose the people you work with or you're convinced you cannot do that, but everyone has a choice: in my case, either advance my career now accepting I have to deal with those 2 moronic gossips or either keep my current job and look for the next opportunity. A third option would be to fake give them the attention so desperately need for a minute and then go back to learning and ignore them. And a fourth one, do nothing, stay where I am without thinking about advancing my career. I'm sure you can choose as well, it's only you're convinced you cannot. Maybe you think it's easier for you to stay where you are or you think changing might be too much of a hassle. Doing nothing and claiming you don’t get to choose who you work with like you do is also a choice.

Who told you that you could go through life without the minor inconvenience of having to deal with conflicting personalities?

Now you sound like a granddad or a mother who didn't have it too good fully convinced everyone must have it as bad as you. Ironically, this happens way too often in nursing: you remind me of how old nurses act with the new grads.

Are you calling me entitled for wanting a quiet life? knock yourself out, but, are you implying you don't want that? why?

you don’t get some protective bubble from the icky, inconvenient parts.

You're being conformist. If everyone thought like you nobody would have changed jobs ever.

You sound angry. Are you angry?

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if an elective surgery gets canceled due to sick doctors, is there anyone to blame?

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vestmoria @linux.community 1个月前

it's actually very sad that your post gets the most upvotes, it simply shows how disconnected, entitled and delusional you and those who upvote you are regarding healthcare.

Nothing surprises me anymore.

You don't seem to understand that people have lives to live and not everyone has the luxury of pretending to be an armchair doctor or nurse like you. If you've never worked a 12 hour shift without pauses, with people blaming you for things you cannot change nor are your fault, with people trying to punch you and raising your voice when they feel inconvenienced you should shut up.

Go back to your ivory tower. No wonder nurses are looking for alternatives elsewhere.

happy downvoting