Wars can be fought on multiple fronts in different ways. We are currently in a trade war with America, started by them, as well as having them threaten and dismiss our sovereignty. This is not the act of an ally. Much like how relations with Germany are currently good, we can considering repairing the relationship with America when theis war and these acts of aggression are over.
I literally have family across America from north to south and east to west. That is no reason to put up with the hostility their nation is showing ours.
A note to beaten housewives everywhere: don't try to leave your husband because you'll lose your financial security. 🙄