Dispossessed [none/use name]
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3·7 days agosex stuff
Have you tried clitoral stimulation with toys? That can be a really powerful tool for someone with a vulva who has trouble with penetration. My partner really likes the ones that sortof form a seal around and “suck” but there are also many kinds of small, discrete vibes too. The big thing is that your partner could be in control of that part so there would be less anxiety about something hurting her.
There is a condition called vaginismus that can cause pain during penetration, it is often caused by trauma and it can take a lot of work to improve. My partner has trauma from SA in the past and the big thing that helps her is to be in control, especially in the beginning while everything’s getting into the mood.
Good luck comrade.
Amazing milestone, congratulations
I ordered some “aspirational dresses” thinking in a few years of hormones I’d look good in them and wear them out. Well, chat, I’m delighted to say they fit, i looked gorgeous and I went out in one last night and felt like a queen.
Some old boomer passers-by looked at me and my girlfriend like they wanted to kill us but I’m getting pretty used to that by now. And they were outweighed by all the smiles of queer recognition. I guess I wear beautiful dresses now.
Omg it’s the best feeling ever right?
Congratulations. I’m 3 weeks in and I’m never going to stop.
10 days hrt woop
No problem. It helped me quite a lot.
I like the gender dysphoria bible https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/. Helped me finally get over the imposter syndrome and just admit I’m trans.
That second paragraph is me. Starting hrt soon. Weeee.
This folded me in half laughing omg.