• henfredemars@infosec.pub
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    2 days ago

    I wouldn’t be so quick to judge. There’s truth to that, but life is about doing not about potential. Anything worth having requires work and comes at risk.

    I can’t fault someone for taking a chance at what they saw as a very real possibility of being happy.

    I know it’s a shit post, but I’m trying to be less bitter these days.

    • Pennomi@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      Also I think people forget that even though a relationship ended, it (presumably) still brought happiness while it lasted.

      You shouldn’t avoid doing good things just because they might end someday.

      • SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca
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        10 hours ago

        Except studies show divorced people are still unhappy. and in the last decade, less are getting divorced because they can’t afford it.

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      1 day ago

      All I see online anymore seems to be bitter takes. Yours is a refreshing view and I’m finding myself wishing I could find a lot more of it.