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  • Wow no I'm dumb I somehow skipped that part of the sentence sorry!!!

  • Have you ever heard of EMDR therapy? This really reminds me of this. It's a newer therapy that is geared towards trauma. They do this weird thing where they have the participants move their eyes back and forth while thinking of their trauma. People seem to be torn on whether or not the eye movements themselves help or if it's just the nature of performing an action while doing so. Kind of sounds like a similar concept to me.

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  • Is this an actual screenshot of the show or is it edited? I love it if it's real.

    Edit: The answer is yes. It's the episode where he gains a ton of weight to be considered disabled so he can wfh. Classic episode.

  • I feel like they somehow made it worse.

  • I have heard the biggest risk of the surgery is basically "permanent" dry eyes. Might not sound like a big deal but to me it sounds like torture.

  • Is this a new copypasta?

  • I see this propagated on the internet, but I get curious on whether or not it's actually true or something that someone made up and got telephoned around the world.

  • What's the relation of this gif in your post to the static photo? It's this an ad in the Duolingo app or something? It's hard to make the connection to that. And this part of the gif is small and in the corner. All you need next time is a bit more of a description!

  • I clicked on the post instead of scrolling by and I am still incredibly confused.

  • Sadly mine doesn't seem to work properly. Nothing in that region does.

  • Me irl.

  • Sad thing is that having a spouse doesn't at all stop a hell of a lot of people. To be clear, I'm not saying this is limited to men...all genders do this. I've personally never understood why. If you don't want to be with your significant other, break up with them. It's a zillion times worse to betray their trust and intimacy and then break up anyway when they find out.

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  • Thing is sometimes I can't remember if I forgot to take it or if I forgot to log it in the app! I have an app too but it had only been so helpful lmao.

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  • Yes exactly lol! I have my watch set to go off but then I don't remember if I did it or forgot to check off the list!

    Thankfully I take two pills per day rn and have a two well pill cutter. So I put a pill on each side. In the morning, there are two pills in the well. I take one pill from one well. In the evening, if I remembered to take the morning one, there is one pill left in the second well.

    Then, at night, I fill up both wells so I start over with them full in the morning.

    Sometimes I forget if I took the morning pill or the evening pill, but I never forget if I took both pills thankfully.

    My goal is to move down to one pill though and that's going to be a lot trickier for me to remember. I don't want to go full old people with a weekly pill box, so I'm going to have to figure something out.

    I'm thinking something like starting with two pills (one per well) on even days and starting with one pill on odd days. I'd just have to make sure I'd keep track of the end of the month. Idk.

  • Do you have a source for that? I know the issues within homelessness are complex but I haven’t seen any data to suggest that a majority of homeless people are severely disabled.

    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8423293/

    A peer reviewed article of a meta analysis of many studies shows a whopping 76% of all homeless people have a mental illness. The majority are alcohol or other substance abuse problems followed by schizophrenia. These can all be incredibly disabling conditions. Something like social anxiety disorder, for example, while can be very disabling on the extreme end, does not cause difficulty caring for basic functioning of yourself. Alcohol/substance abuse problems and/or untreated schizophrenia are incredibly significant conditions which are severely disabling.

    I have a friend with schizophrenia which has been thankfully successfully managed. I have known her for a long time and it was very scary watching her develop it and at first and for professionals to struggle to help her treat it. She would also periodically do this thing where she felt she didn't need her medications because she felt better. So she would stop taking them periodically and go back to having severe issues before everyone managed to convince her to go back on them. It's actually an incredibly common phenomenon and one of the reasons why it's a difficult disorder to treat. She is one of the success stories because she has had a lot of help and support and access to very intensive mental health care. Many do not, unfortunately.

  • I'll admit I only read the first several paragraphs. I do get a bit frustrated at times with the number of people nowadays that claim to have ADHD just because their house is messy or autistic because they have one thing they are passionate about.

    The tricky part is that like the article states...yes, basically all mental illnesses are essentially a part of the normal human condition! So it actually really is a spectrum between "normal" and "mental illness". So where do we draw the line? That's the problem. It's blurry. It's not a binary.

    Where the line is theoretically supposed to be drawn is when the issue is severe enough to have an impairment of functioning or severe distress in an area of your life. Do you have mild social anxiety where you get a little bit of butterflies in your stomach before an event but are able to attend and function just fine? You don't have a disorder. It's natural...some people just have more or less of this than others. Do you have anxiety so intense that you have a panic attack at the thought of ordering food at a restaurant so you never go out to eat? That is functional impairment. You have a diagnosable disorder.

    But again, this line is blurry. What I will say is that even though the first example shouldn't technically be classed as having a disorder, it is always a good idea to try to improve your happiness in life by seeking out how to cope with things like therapy! That's always a good thing and we should strive for everyone to live their best life! But if the first person were to receive medication for that, I'd say they were overmedicated. The second person would heavily benefit from medication.

    It's just dumb to me how people go around and are like "I have trouble paying attention to boring things. I am so quirky with my ADHD, guys"! Yet they have always been able to function just fine. People often get overmedicated this way and two other things happen. 1. They are pathologizing normal human reactions and 2. They almost "cheapen" (not the word I'm looking for) people who really really struggle with "actual" ADHD because they make it look "easy" to live with the condition, while those who "actually" have the condition struggle.

    I will say that a lot of this in the US at least is insurance related. Often, a provider needs to tack on a diagnosis, even if not necessarily accurate, in order for insurance to pay for anything. If they just said that a patient was seeking help for "life improvement" (which is a good idea!), insurance is going to be like "fuck no, you're not getting any money". So like in my case, my providers immediately diagnosed me with both of your standard "anxiety and depression" for billing purposes, when really it's kind of innacurate.

    Anyway goddamn I am always so wordy on the internet lol. Just my views is all.

    tl;dr - I both agree and disagree with the artilce

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  • literally just fix homelessness

    Dude, I know everyone makes it out to be a simple thing, but it's really absolutely not. Homelessness and mental health issues are associated...usually a combination of addiction with one or more other mental illnesses that are severely disabling...be it PTSD, schizophrenia, etc. It is absolutely not as simple as just "give everyone some money" or "give everyone a place to live". Obviously that sort of stuff helps way a lot, but it is really not the easy fix people think it is. Many of these people even end up wandering away from housing that is given to them exactly because of their multiple overlapping severe mental illnesses.

    Basically, the majority of homeless people are also severely disabled by often multiple overlapping mental illnesses which are difficult to treat even in people with stable housing. We should always always strive to find them food and shelter, but it is NOT the easy fix that people think it is. It's a multi-layered issue that requires an insane amount of different types of resources.

  • Right...the idea isn't to make it foolproof, it's just to make a barrier. People generally go for easier targets over ones with a small barrier. If you have two bikes next to each other in public, one with a bike lock and one with no lock at all, the casual thief is way more likely to steal the one without a lock. Bike locks can easily be broken, but they serve as a deterrent.

  • I deliberately use the print as image feature if I don't want someone to be able to select text or search the document (like if I'm sending something with sensitive info as an attachment to an email). Most of the time, I have that option disabled so the document can be searchable and text can be copied from it.

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Has anyone here ever done an intensive outpatient (IOP) program? Just wanted to share my experience for those who might try it.

  • cats @lemmy.world

    Update: Lester is a healthy boy :)

  • cats @lemmy.world

    FIV+ cat tips?

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Today is always a new day. You survived the last one. You can survive another.

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    DBT therapy doesn't work (I read and practice skills for 30 mins a day M-F), meds don't work, consistent cardio doesn't work. Where do I even go from here? (long rant, sorry)

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Am I a bad person? tw: sewer slide

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Today is a new day. Time to try again.

  • cats @lemmy.world

    Do any of you actually call your cats by their names?

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Please help me figure out how to actually DO therapy because I'm stupid (sorry, LONG)

  • cats @lemmy.world

    My cat has started swiping/clawing at me to wake me up or for attention. Is it ok to remove him from my bedroom when he does this?

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Anyone ever taken lamotrigine for reasons NOT related to bipolar disorder or epilepsy? Did it ever make you more emotionally unstable???

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    How the fuck do I actually find a decent DBT therapist??

  • cats @lemmy.world

    I think I'm suddenly very allergic to my cat maybe? What gives????

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Some of us are just sensitive...and I'm coming to think that it is not a pathology

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Two parter...1. How do I know if I actually need medications? How can I tell if they have an effect on me???? (Sorry, long)

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Looking for hobby ideas that you can immediately do for intense frustration/duress/anger that DON'T involve exercise? Looking for something like physical movement combined with mental engagement.

  • Home Improvement @lemmy.world

    I'm stupid...how do I avoid wires when mounting things to the wall?

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Anyone have experience with how to combat dizziness when coming off of an SSRI?

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world

    Stupid question...but what does it mean to "do something nice for yourself"?

  • cats @lemmy.world

    Meet the guiña (aka kodkod), one of the smallest wild cats