Has anyone here ever abruptly ended a personal relationship with someone or even an entire group of friends, simply because you found their behavior or way of being distasteful?
I’m not talking about a massive dramatic argument, but rather a sudden realization that their attitude or actions were just entirely… “off putting”… or that they revealed something fundamental about who they are
I also walked away from a bunch of random libs I was hanging out with at a yearly anime convention.
What I think happened was two things one girl from the group had a crush on me, boyfriend was genuinely pissed. Did not like me for this. My bad, I didn’t try to do this.
The next year, some other girl in this group who was married tried hooking up with me. Which i found kind of gross, her husband had a cuckold fetish. I never thought this shit would happen to me until it did.
And I think me rejecting her pissed her off so the other girl from before colluded and started taking shit I said out of context.
I’m leaving a lot out but I saw the writing on the wall and just left the situation. It felt bad, I want more friends but these people weren’t going to be it.
The people there sucked, it was a bunch of rich white kids. A doctor and a finance weeb furry rented a hotel and they’d all party there at the con but clearly it was some stupid vanity project for these two.
I just finished up school and I wanted to make new friends so I tried this group out, but combined with all the drama and the weird power dynamic I didn’t want to be there.