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opiumfree [any, any]@hexbear.net to chat@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 month ago

how to make friends in your 20s and not end like a lonely socially isolatd chud

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how to make friends in your 20s and not end like a lonely socially isolatd chud

opiumfree [any, any]@hexbear.net to chat@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 month ago
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  • Le_Wokisme [they/them, undecided]@hexbear.net
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    29 days ago

    it works for social situations too. “hey, i kinda have social anxiety but bear with me im trying to get out more” doesn’t come off in the way you might think it does. at least, it doesnt come off bad to the kind of people you should be around. The kind of people who have empathy and are decent

    the studies i’ve seen headlines and one paragraph blurbs of suggest that saying you’re bad at things primes people to be put off, rather than soliciting grace. puts them on guard to notice any faux pas that they might’ve ignored or let slide if the interaction was otherwise going well.

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      28 days ago

      if thats true then game theory and tell people you are great at social interactions and if they feel awkward its them that are bad

      you just hacked social interaction

      • Le_Wokisme [they/them, undecided]@hexbear.net
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        28 days ago

        nice fantasy but i don’t think that follows

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          28 days ago

          protip: in social situations, whatever you are doing right now, dont

          hope that helps

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            28 days ago

            forum discussions aren’t irl. i know how to codeswitch.

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              28 days ago

              doubt

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