I’m already 35, and I don’t think I could get anything at this age, especially in an area with almost no third places, almost nonexistent mental health system, etc.
Yes I know, friends do exist, but it’s just not the same (unless you happen to regularly have sex, cuddle, etc. with your friends).
It sounds like you’re looking for an excuse to give up on romantic relationships, but the choice is either 1) you desire a romantic relationship or 2) you don’t desire a romantic relationship.
Focus on yourself. Focusing on your age, your mental healthcare system, etc is externalizing, whereas focusing on increasing your openness, assertiveness, and socializing are things you can do to work toward finding a partner. Plenty people in difficult circumstances find partners, and 35 is far from too old to date (it’s never too old to date).