Now, realistically, we’re probably not gonna last forever. We’re 18 and 19 years old. But whenever marriage is brought up somehow, even when it’s around non-homophobic people or queer people themselves, she always says “he”, “my future husband”, “If I get married, I hope it’ll be to a man/guy who does ____.”
My girlfriend is bisexual and with the fact that we likely won’t last to get married, I understand this, but I feel confused and also a little sad for some reason because I’m not a man. IDK why I feel like this, I know it’s irrational and that she loves me, not a guy, so why do I feel this way?
SO told me similar when we were teens. 20+ years later still together. This is a Massively bumpy road would not recommend if better options. Yes I wake up next my bff but it really sucked and our relationship took forever to progress. My SO did not want to commit to me for years so Some parts of our relationship feel like it Took 15 years to get to were I feel other couples got to in 2. Its like maximizing the friendship meter but the love meter is capped and you dont know why and there is no guide or mod. This lead to lots of resentment from me because my life became paused waiting for my partner to commit so i can go to my next phase in life. I still feel angry and probably wont ever let go.