Now, realistically, we’re probably not gonna last forever. We’re 18 and 19 years old. But whenever marriage is brought up somehow, even when it’s around non-homophobic people or queer people themselves, she always says “he”, “my future husband”, “If I get married, I hope it’ll be to a man/guy who does ____.”
My girlfriend is bisexual and with the fact that we likely won’t last to get married, I understand this, but I feel confused and also a little sad for some reason because I’m not a man. IDK why I feel like this, I know it’s irrational and that she loves me, not a guy, so why do I feel this way?
Relationships aren’t about being realistic on the future, they are about caring for each other, having fun. I think she’s not caring enough about you when she says these things and expects you to stay