mez@lemmy.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · edit-22 days agoHow can I decide on who and how to love?message-squaremessage-square7fedilinkarrow-up112arrow-down114file-text
arrow-up1-2arrow-down1message-squareHow can I decide on who and how to love?mez@lemmy.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · edit-22 days agomessage-square7fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareBjörn Tantau@swg-empire.delinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down3·3 days agoTo the question in the title: No, you can’t. That’s actually a philosophical topic on free will. You can do what you want but you cannot will what you want. You can gaslight yourself to some degree but that’s all. As for the rest of your post:
minus-squaremez@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down10·edit-23 days agoYeah it seems like we have no control over what we love until they give us a reason to not love them. Its weird For women its much more intense. They cannot (or don’t care to?) stop themselves from acting in certain ways. Which I like Its interesting
minus-squareSharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·3 days agoWomen are not a hivemind. They are individual people, with their own thoughts, hopes, dreams, feelings, and aspirations. Maybe you should start by seeing women on an equal level as human beings, first and foremost.
To the question in the title: No, you can’t. That’s actually a philosophical topic on free will. You can do what you want but you cannot will what you want.
You can gaslight yourself to some degree but that’s all.
As for the rest of your post:
Yeah it seems like we have no control over what we love until they give us a reason to not love them. Its weird
For women its much more intense. They cannot (or don’t care to?) stop themselves from acting in certain ways. Which I like
Its interesting
Women are not a hivemind. They are individual people, with their own thoughts, hopes, dreams, feelings, and aspirations.
Maybe you should start by seeing women on an equal level as human beings, first and foremost.