• glimse@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I will leave you with this:

    My first comment had four sarcastic sentences in it. You jumped through hoops to justify why you believe three of them sincerely. The one you did not address was about losing your support network.

    My reply suggested that you chose to omit that line because you could not figure out a way to spin it as a positive. You are either being deliberately obtuse or you genuinely haven’t figured out that I was referring to you.

    I won’t say I regret responding but I will say it felt like a waste. I accept now that nothing productive will come from further interacting with you so we’ll leave it there. I hope you have a good rest of your day.

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      2 months ago

      “My first comment had four sarcastic sentences in it…”

      uh huh.

      “I won’t say I regret responding but I will say it felt like a waste.”

      oh no!

      your crafted insincerity didn’t pay off?

      “I accept now that nothing productive will come…”

      fifth stage, good stage.

      “I hope you have a good rest of your day.”

      thanks, you too.

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        2 months ago

        Americans seem to hate change and endlessly try the same things expecting different results.

        My Stockholm syndrome has worn off and I’ve been putting an hour a day into language learning since the war started.

        I look forward to taking your advice and making some friends.

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          That’s great to hear, both that the Stockholm has worn off and that you’re learning languages.

          what are you learning right now and which app are you using?

          Duolingo used to be my go to, but not no more, I find it pretty exhausting, so I’m trying out different apps and recently got into drops, which I’m enjoying.

          pretty simple layout, and not as much grammar, but good design, fun mechanics and I’m learning vocab fast.

          if you have any questions about traveling, feel free to shoot them my way, I’m happy to answer what I can.

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            2 months ago

            I’m learning Mandarin Chinese currently, and you’re right that Duolingo can be almost pointlessly limited.

            Duolingo can be a fun/gamified way to kick off learning, but different languages have very different levels of support. (Hindi is known to be wrong/misleading for one.)

            I’ve shifted to using a mix of free courses on YouTube and other apps including HelloChinese and HSK 1.

            Drops seems really interesting especially once grammar is down, great to drill vocab.

            I may take you up on your generous offer for more advice later!

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              I used Duolingo to learn Italian, Japanese, German, Portuguese and so many other languages effortlessly before they completely switched methodologies and completely neutered the program.

              the duo Mandarin Chinese program was really good before the switch.

              I could already speak Mandarin well enough, but I went through the whole course in a few day as a refresher and to see how it’s stacked up against the other languages, and I was really impressed by the program they had come up with.

              I tried to go through it again after they introduced the crown system and was exhausted after like 10 minutes.

              I tried pushing through for a couple days, but they’ve completely broken the system and it’s just no fun to learn anything anymore for me on Duolingo.

              I even went through it again last year just to see, but it is not at all for me anymore.

              sorry, I guess I just don’t get to vent about Duolingo very much hahaha.

              have a fun language journey. and hit me up if you’re ever curious about anything travel-wise.

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      They didn’t answer your question, so I will. If your entire support network hinges on the fact that you are in a specific place at a specific time in the XXIst century? You didn’t have a support network at all.

      There are millions of people living abroad, leaving their families and going into the unknown, alone either to get a new start or to help their family make ends meet. Hell, that’s why the US exists, it was built on the back of migrants. The difference between you and them is simple - you care about yourself and nothing more. You will deny it and in the same breath you’ll tell people to vote for a candidate that supports genocide. You would rather live an easy life, whitewash away the “tiny issues” in your mind so you can sleep easy at night, despite supporting mass killings with your work, your time and your money.

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        2 months ago

        The difference between me and my ancestors who came to this country is that my ancestors came together as a families and other settlers, you sanctimonious douchebag.

        My support network is my friends and family and yes, proximity matters a great deal to providing said support. You think people get the same thing from talking to strangers than the people they’ve known for 30+ years? Get real. Maybe your arrogance is keeping you from forming meaningful bonds with people.

        You’re up on your high horse telling someone to start their life over because their taxes add a drop into the ocean of military funding. To think that moving countries will have any meaningful impact on the deaths of innocent people is truly assinine.

        Go stroke your ego elsewhere

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          Hey, whatever lets you sleep at night man. Take it on the chin and know you are compliant in the genocide. And the only reason why you are getting angry is you know I’m right. The dissonance in your head cannot let you realize the truth - you think of yourself as a “good person” and good people don’t do that. So suddenly your taxes become “a drop in the ocean” instead of “a bullet in a Palestinian’s head”.

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            2 months ago

            I guess you can’t smell the horseshit when you’ve been riding it for so long but it really stinks