NSFW: I’m thinking about buying the toy you see in the picture: a bent, silicone vibrator with several beads. The motor is inside the biggest bead, next to the base and charging port.
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I’m not sure I’m going to feel anything if the motor is so far away from the tip. Total length: 4.5", insertable length: 3.5"
I’ve never used a silicone toy and I don’t know how bendable it is. How much will it adapt to my body?
toy is called Gender X Beaded Pleasure
if this is not the right community to ask, kindly point me to the right one.
Every toy is different, but from the looks of that toy, vibrations are going to be focused primarily on base and any internal vibrations will be secondary.
Every person is different, but depending on your OEM factory hardware… I couldn’t see it doing a whole lot, if anything, for a P-Spot massage. If you’re built the other way, and external stimulation is more your jam you’ll have a much better chance…but it’s still going to focus primarily on whatever it rests against when fully inserted.
Hope this helps, good luck!
I don’t have that exact toy, but I have one with a similar construction, with a vibration motor at the base, and the vibrations are definitely feelable at the tip, albeit they are obviously weaker than the base. Whether that is enough for you well… I suppose it would depend on how strong the motor is and how strong you want the vibrations to be
I’ve never used a silicone toy and I don’t know how bendable it is. How much will it adapt to my body?
That would depend on the firmness of the silicon used… couldn’t say much without having held the toy myself
Vibration is vibration.
Since you didn’t specify, I’m working on the assumption of a vagina being the recipient of said vibrator.
Generally speaking, the vagina is most sensitive in the first two inches inside. As such, the vibrations being most intense at the base should be of benefit in terms of purely vaginal sensation.
Now, the g-spot is also close to the entry of the vagina. Typically, people with vaginas seeking an orgasm internally find stimulation there to be more reliable; there’s a significant percentage of people that can’t orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone.
Even a fairly mild motor should be capable os stimulating the g-spot from the base. Notice that should. Individual vaginas and g-spots vary enough there’s never a guarantee.
So, overall, as long as the entire toy is reasonably stiff, the vibrations should be more than capable of helping you reach orgasm.
Some side info. The g-spot can be reached from the vagina, but isn’t technically part of it. The g-spot is a section of the internal arms of the clitoris. To reach that g-spot, one needs only a finger or two. With the palm facing the vulvae, insert one or two fingers fully, then curl the finger towards the palm like you’re making a “come here” gesture. Or, I guess cum here.
The g-spot feels slightly firmer than the walls of the vagina, and has a spongy spring to it. It is palpable by the person feeling for it. Obviously, the palm person whose g-spot is being palpated would likely be able to tell when it is being pressed on.
It would be a very good idea to trim one’s fingernails before attempting to palpate a g-spot, lest tray be the last time you have access to that vagina, as torn vaginal walls from fingernails are very unpleasant as they heal. They may feel good in the moment to some, but the itching and burning afterwards annoys anyone I’ve ever talked to that has experienced it.
Back to OP
With all of that in mind, chances are good you’ll both reach the g-spot, and stimulate it well with the toy you’re asking about
thanks a lot for such a detailed explanation.
this was intended for my vagina but also for my boyfriend’s prostate. If you’d like to share some insight, feel welcomed.
(Aside from thoroughly cleaning to avoid vaginal infections or using a condom).
Most g-spot toys do quite well for prostate stimulation too. It’s a tad deeper, so you want to make sensitivity absolutely certain the base of the toy is flared enough that it can’t get pulled in all the way. It really does happen, and you can’t rely on hand strength to keep it from happening
Might just be my finger length, but I’ve only ever had to go to my middle finger joint to hit it. Putting my fingers all the way in would put the tips pretty far from the g-spot.
As an aside, you can also use your palm for clitoral stimulation while doing it.
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looking at it, my feeling is that it would be a good protstate stimulator and a poor vaginal one. you might enjoy it if you like anal, but i feel like it’s the wrong form factor for a vagina (to be more explicit, i don’t think it has enough girth). could be decent for clitoral stimulation, if you wanted to try that
unfortunately, the only way to really know is to try it
i have a vagina but have never really been partial to vibration stimulation, esp internally, so ymmv. transmasc so i don’t have the same anal experience as a cis guy, but i have something of a sense for it


