• Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org
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    21 天前

    Kinda bad as it depends on details and im really really bad at noticing details about people, but over time i can figure it out and then surround myself with toxic/negative/bad people as well. The toxic sludge just feels safer and more comfortable and it’s funnier to mess with them.

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      21 天前

      Spotted one!

      Finding it funny to mess with toxic people gets my alarm going for sure.

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      21 天前

      I think that’s an interesting point actually!

      There are groups/personalities that might fit some but not others. I can totally see that.

      So a large part might not what people show, but rather which impressions one gets. That can be very subjective.