Honestly not sure what I expected in terms of a response but this is certainly an interesting reaction. "Calling someone dishonest is not a personal attack" is certainly a take. It's also interesting that dishonesty is your automatic conclusion when there are other alternatives when someone approached you with a different professional experience; absent is the tendency of expert practitioners to be curious about contextual clues that can lead to different outcomes. I'm going to take your criticism in good faith and recognize this is probably the standard you hold yourself to: that any part of yourself that does not comport to the current ideal is to be treated with suspicion.