userse31 [she/her, it/its]
You know I’m probably a trans woman.
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userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netto
traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•T-Gauge - Trans Megathread for the week 12/10/26-18/10/26English
5·22 hours agoAlmost fell for those “Paperless Post” phishing scams holy crap.
Might as well change my password. AGAIN.
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news@hexbear.net•Bulletins and International News Discussion from October 12th to October 18th, 2026 - US Unsanctions Russian Diesel / Ansarallah, Iran Step Up Strikes / Southeast Asia Extreme Wildfires ContinueEnglish
12·22 hours agoand this reform was started by a trans congresswoman.

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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•T-Gauge - Trans Megathread for the week 12/10/26-18/10/26English
9·1 day ago3X size bras are definitely way too big for me lol.
Also I don’t think I want boobs that big.
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•T-Gauge - Trans Megathread for the week 12/10/26-18/10/26English
10·1 day agoWriting a “power fantasy” where my author self insert character (who is an omnipotent white tabby cat) is essentially playing aunt for some six year old.
Pure self indulgence towards my parental instincts lol.
“Well yes the asshole goddess who does stuff like delete Magdalen Berns’ boobs and creates sapient rats has found your six year old adorable so now she’s stopping him from taking outlets apart.”
I’m uploading it to AO3.
Edit: I viciously hate how there’s gendered “god” and “goddess”. Keep mixing those two up.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netto
Chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•prolewiki is downEnglish
7·2 days agoOh. Oh god that’s not good.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•I could kiss DeepSeek right now.English
1·2 days agoWell yes, that’s what I usually do, but sometimes I can’t figure something out.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•I could kiss DeepSeek right now.English
6·2 days agoOP is autistic and it is common for autistic people to anthropomorphize objects.
It’s also common for us to say something that ends up coming off differently.
Like uh… Like what I did right here.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•I could kiss DeepSeek right now.English
2·2 days agoThe search engine is the first thing I go towards, but occasionally I don’t know what words to begin searching.
Also you can’t write a short open ended blurb into a search engine.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•I could kiss DeepSeek right now.English
4·2 days agoIt’s a computer program. By definition it does have an internal state.
It does not “think” obviously, only decide which word should be written next, but it does have an internal state.
As for pronouns the “correct” answer is that DeepSeek as inanimate object pronouns just like any other computer program. I used female pronouns to be cheeky.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•I could kiss DeepSeek right now.English
11·2 days agoAlso, why are you assigning pronouns to an LLM?
Short answer: Thought it was slightly amusing.
Longer answer: https://youtu.be/UICp6RcSjCw
Even longer answer: English often assumes the “default gender” is male. I like to fight against that a little bit.
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2·2 days agoCan’t help but remember that American who “supposedly counter hacked the DPRK”.
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13·2 days agogained access through an IT company’s account protected by the password “123456.”
Oh for fuck sake- WHY? WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT!?
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•I could kiss DeepSeek right now.English
6·2 days agoGranted I very rarely use LLM’s, and I only use DeepSeek, but I haven’t come across that.
Is that a new thing, or is it… Idk. I want to learn more about that.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•I could kiss DeepSeek right now.English
5·2 days agoYes, but it’s a little fun!
Edit: Okay my stupid silliness was very much not received very well.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•I actually have an internal self portrait of myself now!English
4·2 days agoI feel less “empty” too!
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•"Hi! I don't have boundaries because I was raised by an emotionally abusive parent!"English
7·2 days agoOh shit you’re right!
Throw in “ablesplaining” and “forced unwelcomed help” and you get the utter hell I live in.
Also doesn’t help my sibling is a spineless liberal who has no real principles.
Fucking claimed to support trans people but then got snippy with me coming out “because I’m doing it to piss people off”.
He full on pushed back on my stating Michelle is abusive.
Hell he doesn’t even know a lick of what abusive parenting looks like. I’ve read, and will continue to read, the life experiences of abusive households. That has taught me what patterns and stuff to look for.
My sibling avoids that stuff like the plague.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•"Hi! I don't have boundaries because I was raised by an emotionally abusive parent!"English
5·2 days agoNo but I have called a legal aid program for advice, alongside contacting people in my life I actually trust (namely those at the mental health community thing I go to).
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
chat@hexbear.net•"Hi! I don't have boundaries because I was raised by an emotionally abusive parent!"English
5·2 days agoIf I ever die they got some specific passwords to inform people I know online about it, but they don’t know all my passwords.
I need to get that sorted out. I don’t want my online presence to become ghosts after I die.
I’m thinking… Giving them to my nieces!
That said, I could never imagine my parents controlling my finances, they’re very bad at theirs. I’m not looking forward to the day they croak and having to untangle it all.
Honestly? Might be worth confronting that now. I’m a computer programmer and electronics nerd, but I’m imagining the legal stuff gets MORE complicated when someone dies.
userse31 [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.netOPto
askchapo@hexbear.net•What's the term for an abled person shoving their "help" at a disabled person?English
2·2 days agoMaybe that is the phrase.


Well the inside of a disposable razor is neat.
Nothing ground breaking. You’re typical mundane (but autism satisfying) cost engineering going on.
Except the spacer between the blades. It’s aluminium! Not plastic! Must be down to how plastic bends and warps easily, something you don’t want when you have slivers of stainless steel on par with aluminium foil.
Wonder if it’s that grade of steel that’s able to be used in a foxhole radio if you blast it with a torch.