userse31 [she/her, it/its]

You know I’m probably a trans woman.

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Cake day: April 26th, 2022

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  • Oh shit you’re right!

    Throw in “ablesplaining” and “forced unwelcomed help” and you get the utter hell I live in.

    Also doesn’t help my sibling is a spineless liberal who has no real principles.

    Fucking claimed to support trans people but then got snippy with me coming out “because I’m doing it to piss people off”.

    He full on pushed back on my stating Michelle is abusive.

    Hell he doesn’t even know a lick of what abusive parenting looks like. I’ve read, and will continue to read, the life experiences of abusive households. That has taught me what patterns and stuff to look for.

    My sibling avoids that stuff like the plague.



  • If I ever die they got some specific passwords to inform people I know online about it, but they don’t know all my passwords.

    I need to get that sorted out. I don’t want my online presence to become ghosts after I die.

    I’m thinking… Giving them to my nieces!

    That said, I could never imagine my parents controlling my finances, they’re very bad at theirs. I’m not looking forward to the day they croak and having to untangle it all.

    Honestly? Might be worth confronting that now. I’m a computer programmer and electronics nerd, but I’m imagining the legal stuff gets MORE complicated when someone dies.