i think "non binary" makes a lot of sense as an unbrella term for all those who are not (exclusively) man or woman. i don't know what could better express that... maybe "neither"? but i also personally don't mind the possible computer association of the word binary.
with that said, i totally get feeling uncomfortable with certain labels. i personally also prefer "fuck gender. i don't do that shit" over "non binary"

damn 2017... that's... ALMOST A DECADE AGO??? ;w;