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Cake day: June 16th, 2023

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  • Give her space maybe she will come back maybe she won’t. If you can, because it is hard to stay with someone who doesn’t have the same feeling as you, stay with her as a friend.

    Hearing your side of the story it feels like she has to undertake serious work on herself to get out of her abusive ex and start being normal. And a good relationship feels too good to be true.

    Self sabotage, PTSD will be common for a few years and she might spiral out without significant trigger forever.