I have two friends born to parents of similar ages as that. Both have had very happy families. One was an only child. The other had a similar age gap with his half siblings, they didn’t interact much while he was growing up, but now that he’s an adult they hang out all the time. It seems like both friends have had to deal with more challenging losses of parents earlier in their lives than typical, but there’s no guarantee about tomorrow anyway.
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cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•my youtube algorithm kinda sucks rn, recommend me some1·23 days agoUndecided with Matt Ferrell - new energy tech developments Technology Connections - how contemporary and retro tech works City Nerd with Ray Delahanty - public transit, city planning, housing affordability, city walk throughs
I believe they’re on Nebula as well
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•what books about personal boundaries do you know that don't mention god?3·23 days agoNot strictly about boundaries, but I think you’d like the Evolving Self by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. It goes a lot into how to consider your priorities in life and what you want to spend your time on
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto science@lemmy.world•Action needed on plastic additives linked to sperm decline, experts warnEnglish3·28 days agoTl:Dr: Phthalates are endocrine disrupters
I’m out of the loop, what happened with Snoop?
Director of National Intelligence? Does Nobody Inquire? Do Not Ingratiate?
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Men who feel like fully functional people, how did you get there?1·1 month agoYou’re welcome!
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Men who feel like fully functional people, how did you get there?2·1 month agoOn the fulfilling community aspect, I found that at my Unitarian Universalist (UU) church. UU’s don’t believe in a shared religious text, instead they have a core set of shared values. My church has people who identify as atheist, Christian, several types of pagan, Buddhist, Jewish, Muslim, etc. We celebrate religious holidays from all of them as well as secular holidays like Trans Day of Visibility and Earth day. The focus is on being together and trying to make the world a better place. I also really like the music program. There’s a handy website to find a congregation near you, many stream services on Zoom so you can test them out before going in person.
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Secretly insecure?20·1 month agoThe Expanse does a good job delving into somewhat realistic internal solar system travel/physics in the not too distant future and politics of Earth vs Mars vs asteroid “Belters” factions
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•If suffering is good because it gives life meaning, wouldn't it follow that hurting people is good?1·1 month agoAgreed. There’s plenty of suffering that happens in life just because. Purposeful suffering doesn’t seem like a good thing in most cases.
But there’s also the issue of the definition of suffering. Minor suffering like tolerating a colder thermostat setting in the winter, it saves money and energy, seems rather subjective on where the line could be drawn on bad vs good.
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•anyone have personal experience with industrial tourism?6·1 month agoCheck out your local recycling center, they often do tours!
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto You Should Know@lemmy.world•YSK that Gerrymandering allows politicians to determine election outcomes by changing electoral maps. In most western countries, it's illegal. Gerrymandering is common in the United States41·1 month agoThere is a board game! There’s also a virtual version of Mapmaker on Board Game Arena
It is quite fun despite the depressing context.
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto memes@lemmy.world•Don't raise taxes on them because innovation21·2 months agoOne of the suggestions should have been “venmo donations”
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/jul/25/venmo-americans-us-government-debt
Of course not, it was made with vacuums duh
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto Uplifting News@lemmy.world•Eight beavers in the Czech Republic did some public service.English8·2 months agoWould you prefer less effort and readability in my comments?
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto Uplifting News@lemmy.world•Eight beavers in the Czech Republic did some public service.English12·2 months agoDid not ask ChatGPT. I spend a good amount of my free time volunteering on environmental projects, including rain water management. Rain gardens are great!
cymbal_king@lemmy.worldto Uplifting News@lemmy.world•Eight beavers in the Czech Republic did some public service.English136·2 months agoNot sure about the specifics in this particular case, but here are common things that contribute to poor river water quality:
- Impermeable surfaces in human-built environments, which cause water to flow more quickly and therefore erode river banks (dams and retaining ponds help slow down water flows)
- Residential and agricultural fertilizer/manure runoff, increases nutrients in water that cause microbes to grow faster
- Tiling agricultural fields, which releases more of the above
- Untreated human sewage
- Improper dumping of industrial chemicals, or breach of containment due to upstream flooding
- Runoff from abandoned mines
Caffeine in moderate quantities is alright. Coffee and tea are antiinflammatory as well, without the loads of sugar and cream they’re healthy drinks.
I highly recommend Harvard’s Nutrition Source for science-based nutrition info that’s easy to read.