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captainlezbian

@ captainlezbian @lemmy.world

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  • big facts

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  • I absolutely believe in energy, frequency, and vibration. My wifi vibrates at a frequency of 2.4 and 5 GHz and in order to do that it needs to use energy.

    Like, I'm down with hippie woo energy work, it's really useful meditation. I use it to keep my anxiety under control. But your religion can't cure diseases, it can only provide comfort

  • We Analyzed 300 Texas Accounts on a White Supremacist Dating Site. The Data Explains a Lot About Politics Right Now.

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  • Editor’s note: Please assume “sic” for all quotes.

    Absolutely brutal

  • BREAKING NEWS - Israeli media reports Supreme Ayatollah Ali Khamenei, leader of Iran, was killed inside his bunker

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  • I'm glad he's dead, I'm sad how it happened. Foreign bombs against a religious and political leader don't make for a stable transition of power, they result in decades of war between rebels in the mountains and whoever controls the cities.

  • US man issues challenge to disprove his claim of having world’s smallest penis to raise micropenis awareness

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  • Damn, that's impressively small. Also bro's got some confidence, respect.

  • Is toothpaste supposed to be sealed or is this how shitty the products just are now?

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  • Yep, I'm in manufacturing and we want to know and to make it right

  • Archaeologists in race against time to save shipwreck uncovered by storms on edge of nudist beach

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  • Average looking people watching the archeology while not wearing clothes?

  • Mamdani’s meeting with Trump was a Trojan Horse triumph at the White House

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  • Yeah, this isn't amicable, this is a mayor charming an evil president into doing a few good things

  • Guess I have boobs now

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  • I love it, it's kinda a pain in the ass in some ways, but I really like what it adds to my boobs. They're definitely an inconvenient piercing as they take long to heal and close up really fast.

    And yeah they definitely add to the sexualization which can be a plus or minus. Like I don't want my in laws to catch sight of it, even if I am a very "free the nipple" type. And it's not like I hide my piercings when I'm topless in public, it's a small enough change that I don't see any difference in that context.

    But yeah if you've planning on surgery you'll want them to heal and to get some plastic jewelry for recovery. And speaking from personal experience, it was stupid as hell to get my nipples pierced 3 months after bottom surgery.

    And yeah I've also generally shifted from baggy clothes over the past few years. In general I'm glad I got them pierced.

  • It's literally science

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  • The kids are wrong

  • Guess I have boobs now

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  • Because it makes the nipples more visible under shirts. When you're wearing something baggy with subtle nipples it's fine, but when they're always prominent it's less so.

  • CAH Gives You Your Fucking Money Back

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  • Ooh it's been too long since I've had a nice big plate of fried clams with a mayo based sauce

  • It's literally science

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  • If that doesn't work learn Dvorak

  • CAH Gives You Your Fucking Money Back

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  • Oh a clam and mayo sandwich would fucking slap

  • help, im poor and shy

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  • $1,000 car loan payments are on the rise, stressing household budgets

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  • When buying used you shouldn't trust any dealer at their word. When buying new yeah you should be able to trust the oem. Unless you buy American, then caveat emptor, don't know why you thought Ford suddenly started using quality control.

  • You could be entitled to compensation

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  • Why are they advertising the mineral asbestos in asbestos magazine? Surely nobody is reading that publication because they're on the fence about the stuff?

  • Maybe the real Iran was the friends we made along the way

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  • Surety these are trolls, especially the ones putting it in the ocean…

  • (drama) Found myself stuck in a love triangle mess between two coworkers, what should I do?

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  • I should clarify, it's not your fault you know these things, but he needs to learn that enough bosses won't be understanding that he should learn to curate the aspects of himself that he professionally displays.

    Having good and amicable professional relationships is awesome. My coworkers know that I'm into bicycles, they don't know that the bike shop I volunteered at was explicitly anarchist. They know I'm married, they don't know I'm polyamorous. He needs to learn to find a level of sharing that can keep him safe, because elsewhere in the thread you mention he's on the verge of disciplinary action.

    You seem to have professional boundaries as well, and I think that yours are totally reasonable. A friend of mine is a manager of software developers and she has similar boundaries to you with her subordinates (she describes her job as basically being a kindergarten teacher for adults), but if you have to discipline John, that closeness will bite back.

    And it's good that they seem to actually be on good terms with each other, though she still may have given him the old pocket veto.

    Have a conversation with John, make it clear you aren't disciplining him, but attempting to help him in his career, because this oversharing is going to fuck him hard someday if he doesn't get it under control. It'll be a lot easier of a pill to swallow from a boss he likes and respects than from one who brings in HR on his first week. He should know you're doing this specifically because you think he's a good guy and you want what's best for your subordinates.

    For what it's worth it sounds like you quite like this lady and like nothing you do is going to avoid a mess, so yeah have fun with that. I don't think John is going to avoid pain here. Both from what you described of that crush and from what you've described of him possibly needing a PIP. It sucks, and it really sucks for you. But fr, act like he didn't tell you about Jane and pretend you forgot. It's probably the only winning move here even if it sucks. Well, that and posting follow ups. Posting follow ups as things continue is the ultimate winning move.

  • I think i am ready to switch from windows and need advice

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  • Try a live boot of nobara to see if it works for you

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    captainlezbian @lemmy.world

    Rulehio

  • homeassistant @lemmy.world
    captainlezbian @lemmy.world

    Seeking assistance getting haos server running

  • homeassistant @lemmy.world
    captainlezbian @lemmy.world

    Attempting to use Home Assistant OS