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  • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Couple rule
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    I feel it’s because (generally), they like both either way and so their loved one transitioning is like having both cakes and eat it too /lh

    Not in a chaser sense, but a genuine sense of “omg, amazing, i get to enjoy both sides from the same person?” and that for a trans person, being pre-transition, they can feel safer knowing chances are in their favour that the other will like them regardless.

    Like I’ve heard tales w/ cishet and trans relationships where it is more of a coinflip – sometimes they realise they do love them regardless, othertimes they realise, “sorry, i don’t swing that way”. And that is okay too, as long as it ends on good terms. That goes in general with most relationships and ties: whether they strand or not, having good terms is the big part.

    Sure, it can still be the case that it doesn’t work out eventually between bi and trans people in a relationship. But that’s less likely to be due to the transition itself, and that’s kind of relaxing in some way.

    (signed, someone who got adopted by a bi person before)



  • Aah, thanks! I def also do want injections, but in my country they’re not available with insurance, you’d have to DIY.

    interesting… so spiro is a different kind of E? Or–?

    I def did have a blood test, last one was a few months ago and I finally got to cis levels, and my boobs feel sore when pressing, so that’s good signs they’re finally actually growing… But that was when I had access to blockers.

    Now that I’m on pills, annoyingly there’s been quite a few “shortages” with the T-blockers. Even the 4-week-dose blockers have run out, which is incredible. So I think I’ll just DIY buy them, ugh.