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  • I think the easiest thing to do is just look and see if it has a stamp on it. Very often it'll just tell you. Look for "full grain leather" and be wary of "made with leather". Another thing you can do is to really acquaint yourself with what a full grain leather belt looks and feels like and then you'll have a feel for the weight, stiffness and finishing. You can also look for ones that look a bit worn, with slightly deformed holes, a little warping, scuffed edges or tooling etc. If it looks worn, it's already withstood the test of time, and real leather can be re-dyed and reshaped. Obviously don't buy something that looks like it's falling apart though, cracking and rips aren't worth the hassle if it's not something sentimental. You won't necessarily find a good leather belt every time you go to a thrift store, but it's definitely something to keep an eye out for and you never know.

    You can also always buy a bigger belt, because full grain leather can be cut and the edge finished with hobbyist crafting tools.

  • Hey I get it though, bike lanes are expensive new infrastructure. So pro-bike, anti bike lane just means all roads are now for bikes, cars not allowed. Ban cars and you don't need expensive new infrastructure! Sounds great!

  • You can still find them for $5 in thrift shops, just need to be able to tell the difference between the good stuff and the crappy stuff.

  • Apparently black clothes, when worn loose with a big skirt like that, can create a chimney effect and increase airflow underneath

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  • I used to have a very low opinion of the capabilities of kids younger than 5, and genuinely had no idea what they were really like. I remember having similar thoughts about parents grieving babies, because for milennia we as a species had to deal with children dying all the time, to the point of not even naming them before certain ages. I have a toddler now and boy did I underestimate them. Did you know some speak in full sentences by two and a half? We taught our kid sign language when he was 8 months old so he could tell us what he needed, and by ten months he was telling us he loved trucks, had a surprisingly high tolerance for hot sauce and was a major cuddle bug who had a different favorite color every day (but mostly yellow and blue). He's three now and knows how to crack jokes, build block castles, can do forward and backward floor somersaults, and even can even do some basic rock climbing. I have parent friends with kids similar ages, one has their kid writing already, another has their kid riding a bicycle, all under 4 years old. They come out of the gate with very distinctive personalities, and every kid is different. I think if you actually knew a toddler well enough to get to know them, you'd realize just how quickly they become a fully realized person.

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  • Well you see Loki was also a horse at the time

  • Women with large breasts and slim frames just exist as human beings in reality, but when it's drawn in anime it's a choice. Having the "camera" focus on upskirt shots or side boob is a choice. Animating boob bounce is a choice. So a 15 year old depicted in micro skirts and a bandeau, that has a bath scene and a scene where she takes her top off is a choice. This is in the context of a thread talking about anime sexualizing minors. If Winry was a living, breathing girl, she could make those choices herself, in the privacy of her own life, but this is an anime character where she was specifically drawn that way in an industry that is overwhelmingly male dominated. FMA:B IS a very good show, and Winry is a real character with actual traits and a personality, but pretending that all of these design and story decisions weren't made on purpose by people who almost certainly were adult men is naive.

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=aAOegc0ezGk&pp=ygUQd2lucnkgYmF0aCBzY2VuZdIHCQmNCQGHKiGM7w%3D%3D

  • She was specifically drawn that way, it's not like it was an accident. I acknowledge in her case it's subjective though because I can't remember any gratuitous angles and they don't really focus on it.

  • It's a great show but Winry does wear unnecessarily revealing clothes. I guess a big deal isn't made out of it. The one that's a major omission is Spy X Family actually

  • Ooo yes Little Witch Academia is perfect

  • If she has creative passions, she might love Hands Off My Eizouken. It's a show about 3 high school girls who start their own anime club, and work on making a short animation for their first project. The girls are all just girls, weird fun gremlins, whacky passionate kids who want to make something cool together. I can't remember anything problematic, they even managed to avoid sexualizing a bath episode, but you should screen it first obviously.

    Bocchi would be great for any kid who has had or does have trouble fitting in due to being quirky or different, and has a similar premise of girls getting together to be creative but a different (but also good) vibe.

    Agreeing with the other posters that Frieren wouldn't be a good choice yet. Delicious in Dungeon might be, but that would be kid dependent and another you would want to screen first to see how you think she'd take it. The tone is mostly light and goofy but there are definitely some scary moments in there.

    Missingno mentioned Little Witch Academia and I would absolutely second that, it's cute and wholesome and definitely appropriate for kids

  • That trope bothers me too, but basically any anime female is going to look the same anywhere from 12 to 40 due to the way the features are stylized. So, looking for context clues is how you find the age of a character if it's not explicitly said. Frieren is absolutely treated like, dresses like, and acts like an adult. She's smaller than a human man, larger than a dwarf or human child, and while she's infantalized a little by Fern it's very much in the "how are you this old and still not taking responsibility for x" way.

  • It's so good! It's one of my absolute favorites too. The highschool girls are just all believable and grounded characters with real personalities and quirks. The whole thing is really well done.

  • Hmm, I don't remember that, so maybe I should rewatch it. I did name 4 when the illustration showed 3 haha.

  • Delicious in Dungeon, Frieren, Hands off my Eizouken, and Bocchi the Rock probably

    Edited to add Spy x Family, and I suppose Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood depending on if one feels Winry is sexualized.

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  • I've personally only seen kids on leashes in the context I mentioned above, of a large, crowded event where a few bodies moving in the way of your kid will break line of sight entirely. Outdoor festivals, concerts, fairs, amusement parks etc. I have never seen a kid on a leash at a playground or park or bank or grocery store etc. Toddlers are small and if there's a lot of bodies around it would be VERY easy to lose sight of them. If my kid ran off and broke my line of sight of him in a crowd I absolutely would have a moment of panic. Again, I'm not going to judge other parents for finding solutions to problems that don't harm the child.

    I got away from my mother at a large event, and left her panicking and organizing other parents to search for me. When they found me she spanked me and yelled at me for running off. It wasn't the first time and wouldn't be the last. Obviously hitting me was wrong, but she was terrified of what could have happened to me. If she had just used a tether it would never have happened.

    Something's lack of representation in media is not exactly a reliable metric of commonality, if it was, gay people sprang into being in the late 90s.

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  • It's normal enough. I saw a couple of kids on wrist leashes just this weekend at a very crowded outdoor event. The kids were probably about 2 and 3. I have a 3 year old as well, and didn't have him on a leash because he's responsive to my voice calling him and has decent (for his age) impulse control. I didn't judge or have negative impressions of those parents. They were present and just trying to enjoy the event with their kids. It's HIGHLY kid dependent. When I was a toddler, I was the type to just run off in a crowd and I could have saved my mother a lot of grief and panic if she had a leash for me. It's just another tool available to parents.

    It's important not to project your feelings as an adult, because you have different assumptions, associations and contexts tied to leashes than a toddler does. Generally, toddlers are taught to have shame or be embarrassed about things, their default sentiment to most things is extremely pragmatic. A toddler on a leash will be focused on the tactile sensation of it on their wrist or body, the effect it has of limiting their movement, and not much else. Think about when you saw those kids on leashes... were they upset about the leash? Were they trying to get out of it? Were they asking their guardians to please take it off? Or were they just kinda being silly kids running around exploring?

    Also to this:

    If you are taking them to a place where it's dangerous for them to act like children...then why the fuck are you taking them there in the first place?!

    Sometimes you just have no other option. A fair price for babysitting is $20+ USD an hour. Not every toddler is in or has access to daycare. Not every family has grandparents close enough to drop them off with. Sometimes bringing them along to a place with you is the only way they'll have supervision.

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  • My understanding is that the ADHD brain activity resembles an NT's when they're extremely tired or sleep deprived, with a lot of theta wave activity. Stimulants can help jog an ADHD person's brain into alpha and beta waves, which are associated with relaxation or alertness and focus.

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  • Oops, fixed