MikeyChaz [none/use name]
fitness instructor from Brazil 🇧🇷 🤘
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101·5 days agoif the site needs to enact a policy that any kind of posting that might involve other people in our lives be relegated to DM only, then OK
Yeah, no. This is such a convenient ultimatum that benefits you, it just sounds like you’ll just use this as an excuse to slide into direct messages or make “feeling lonely please dm” posts.
This is not a serious issue and yet you’re being extremely defensive about something the majority of the website is against whilst playing the smol bean role for sympathy points. Stop posting about crushes, it’s creepy.
8·5 days agoThey should rename Brazil Strazil because we are the biggest exporter of straw to the US
Sometimes I wake up screaming “YOU FUCKING ANIMALS YOU FUCKING ANIMALS” because I have a looooot of hate for some people
Huh, I would’ve thought you were younger from your posts like early 20s are you sure you’re 30?
My guy if you’re 30 you shouldn’t be going to work for relationships the same way you shouldn’t use organizing as a means to find a relationship either, it’s kinda creepy especially when you’re in your 30s. I usually associate people trying to hookup at work with teens / 20 year olds. I’m different because some of my clients give me their number and then only after work do I pursue something with them, but when I’m at work it’s all about the job and making money- I’m a fitness instructor.
It seems like you have a bunch of crushes then since the last few times you made it seem like it was just this one person who you’ve not really asked out and then hoped that with time something would materialize but if anything you’re just not committing hard enough and that’s fine you know, some people it doesn’t come naturally.
If you want my advice I’d say stop trying to date your coworkers and just focus on the other things you have going on in your life like the D&D thing? I don’t know what that is but it sounds like you could benefit from that. But yeah the dating coworkers thing isn’t working out so maybe just stick to making that money bro.
You’ve been “Crushposting” over this person for quite some time now and the fact that it hasn’t progressed further beyond a friendship is because you’re looking too deep into this connection, like you’re hoping some spark will ignite eventually. It won’t. You have to come to terms with this reality. You haven’t asked them out, I advise you that you shouldn’t because if there was a connection because the amount of time you have both spent together at work and outside of work and nothing more has come about from it then it’s explicitly clear to me that this is a friendship, nothing more nothing less.
You have to move on pal, start doing things for yourself and stop living for other people. So many guys I know are miserable because they think a partner will “fix” them but it never does and the desperation to get into a relationship doesn’t mean you’re ready. I’ll give you the benefit of doubt because you sound like a kid, early 20s? So I’ve been there before.
Edit: English isn’t my first language I’m from Brazil
That just sounds like they agreed to hang out with you but they’re not necessarily interested in you.
[medical/emergency]
[I wish i’d listened to everyone telling me to go to the hospital sooner. My condition was very bad but I am stable now except unfortunately my hand had to be removed due to contracting sepsis from the infection. My doctor advised me to go to the hospital 2 days ago but I thought I could wait it out till the end of the day. The fever symptoms got worse throughout the day and I think I entered a comatose state. I only remember being rushed to the hospital and then waking up yesterday night. When my girlfriend came home from work she found me passed out half on the couch and half on the floor unresponsive. She panicked and called the ambulance services who then rushed me to hospital. This is a very important lesson in making sure you don’t pick at hangnails because I went from picking it two weeks ago to now having no hand. I have to start rehab soon. I have also had to cancel all my client visits for the following months which I am sad about.]