Lerios [hy/hym]

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Cake day: July 26th, 2020

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  • i mean i was also bullied at every step. but it did stop at college. when people aren’t trapped in small locations with the same 40 people for years they aren’t anywhere near so hostile. inevitably some people might not like you, but their reaction to that will be to go somewhere else or do something they enjoy, not to be awful to you on purpose. college students are adults with adult freedoms (their own space to calm down, the ability to walk out of situations, the ability to choose who they associate with) and adult responsibilities (more sensible social expectations, treating your peers badly makes for a hostile and difficult work environment, things that were “just how it is” are now criminal physical assault). its like that whole bullshit alpha wolf study; when you put animals in an unnatural stressful captive environment weird shit happens and gives rise to behaviours that don’t happen in the wild. the self-determination of college benefits both potential parties in bullying and makes it far less frequent, far less severe, and, vitally, possible to just walk away from.

    not everyone will magically be cool in college, but the structures that facilitate and reward bullying are now gone. it becomes massively less common.

    i didn’t ~meet my lifelong friends~ at college. but over 4 years i slowly learned that people aren’t necessarily awful, and how to interact with them without being intimidated or too hopeless to try. THAT helped me make actual friends later. i hope you find nicer situations going forward, comrade inshallah
















  • i still think the most insane post i’ve seen from this guy is this, when he came onto a legitimate politics-ish post talking completely unironically about how astrology doesn’t work ANY MORE, because

    The powers of the follwers of Pythia (later the Sisterhood of Karn) were dimished by Rassilon’s Anchoring of the Thread at the temple of Atropos.

    which, if you’re into obscure doctor who novels from the 90s, you might recognise as the thing that made time lords infertile and gave their godking power over reality. he casually refers to pre-time lord gallifreyan witches as real historical figures. he claimed this makes sense because he is a modal realist, and did not back down

    he then spent the next few days going around doctor who extended universe tumblr asking people to ask people to unblock him. this is what convinced me he is legit unreachable. no one trolls like this for this long without ever actually having any fun