HexaSnoot [none/use name]

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Cake day: 2022年8月22日

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  • I know not to call black people names of foods, like chocolate toffee caramel etc… I think it can be positive if someone calls their own skin that, but it seems wrong somehow if anyone else does it. I feel it’s exoticizing because youre reducing them to their skin color. Whereas calling your own skin a shade seems fine.

    Somehow saying “black” feels okay enough, but not quite, and I don’t know exactly why.

    In the past, up the year I graduated highschool, I’d say “African American” and multiple people awkwardly looked at me and told me “just say black.” So I did to avoid social awkwardness. I was later told some people don’t like being called “black” and to say African American, so now saying “black” to describe race and culture feels strange again. It seems like not everyone wants to reclaim the word “black.” I’m not sure what to do about my phrasing here. Do I change how I refer to African Americans and their culture on a person by person basis?





  • Not necessarily beyond rational calculation as it says. I’ve come to realize I like both people and animals because there’s a similar piece of me that relates to certain qualities of theirs. So it helps me be brave and do things at home. It’s me doing performance art at home to get things done and navigate my anxiety that has me avoid things I need to get done.

    If I’m afraid of showering, now I’m a big blue whale that dives into the bath. If I’m at the hospital and I need to use a rail, I’m a bird that perches on rails with my hands, ignoring risk of covid until I’m home and can wash my hands. (I used to sanitize my hands too much.) If I’m on the floor at home, I can choose to put my dirty hair on a pile of clean laundry because I’m a cat and this is my new bed.

    It just makes my life easier. I’m navigating control issues. I can really get into it at home. And I hope I get even more into it. I have dreams where I’m comparing my life to lives of animals too.

    If you respect, like, and enjoy a person or animal, I think its likely you have the same trait within you. Expressed or not.

    Adding indigenous culture in my question was to be inclusive to those who really are indigenous.




  • Not always. For me it’s performance art that I do in my private time to handle life at home better. Its not to feel special, its to draw bravery to do things as an anxious person highly avoidant of mamy activities.

    I love seeing a badass, graceful, reaslistic animal costume so I am a furry in that way.

    Genuinely asking, what’s the harm in having both animal spirits and being a furry? Btw, I do not connect mine with an Indigenous culture, but I’ve met an Indigenous person who has. That’s what made me think to add that last sentence to my question in the title.

    What about chakras? I thought that was Indian, so someone please potentially de-orientalise my understanding of chakras. I did notice them tattooed on the arm of someone indigenous to America. This is why I wish more people would be open about their complaints of appropriated pieces of their culture. She told me about her tattoos but never got to the fact that chakras are her culture’s.






  • Some moments I feel like being trans is one of the most normal things. Are you ever so satisfied with your gender and sex that you remember you’re trans and think “So what if I’m trans?” You aren’t defensive or dismissive about others judgements, and you aren’t judging it either. It just is. The fact that your trans simply exists and no one in the moment is making a single deal about it.

    Because I only sometimes feel like that, I occasionally wonder if I have internalized brainworms about the concept of being trans that make me feel dysphoric at other times.

    I mostly keep the fact that I’m trans a secret among close friends because the less of a deal is made about it the more at peace I feel with my gender.

    This is not a suggestion for how you guys should live. It’s just how I personally exist.